I knew it wasn't for me, he is only 3yrs older than my daughter, I thought I could have a little fun. He turned out to be more trouble, with more baggage than a older man. I am relieved to be done with it all. Thanks for bolstering my courage to dump his pitiful behind.
You are probably right, I have a feeling he missed out on a lot of socialization and growing up. No, I can't see going through this chaos over an extended period. I don't want to change HIM, just his way of seeing me as a threat to him. I have a feeling I'm going to need more than luck.
He could be, I never thought of that. Before we met he was already making big plans for our future. When I told him he was moving too fast he said he was only kidding around. Hm mm, I have a lot to think about on that subject.
He could be, I never thought of that. Before we met he was already making big plans for our future. When I told him he was moving too fast he said he was only kidding around. Hm mm, I have a lot to think about on that subject.
He says 3 years ago, before he lost a lot of weight (140 lbs). Which I think is also a factor, he still has self esteem issues related to being large. Oh hell, what have I gotten myself into?
He says 3 years ago, before he lost a lot of weight (140 lbs). Which I think is also a factor, he still has self esteem issues related to being large. Oh hell, what have I gotten myself into?
I keep telling myself "Just be patient", but these last few weeks seem like an eternity. If I didn't see great potential for us I wouldn't bother continuing. I think the fact that I am much older than him is a two edge sword. He values my wisdom but suspects my motives for dispensing it.
He appears to be in total denial, he even said at the start how he is so over his past. Sounds good, but the proof is in his actions. I don't know how to open the subject without him turning it into an accusation. The biggest problem is he is very young and I don't think he realizes the damage does heal, but he has to face the hurt first.
I met a great guy who is much younger than me (Go Cougars), but everything I have been looking for in a man. We have been dating a few weeks and his insecurities from being used in the past are beginning to surface. On top of that his family is using the age difference to add fuel to the fire. I would like to continue seeing him, but I am worn out fending off his anxiety attacks. Am I crazy or what?
My preference is a man of character who can wear khakis and an oxford shirt on friday and make it casual. Attractive, well dressed, intelligent with a side of good sense of humor. Not asking for much, right.
I've been 'surfing' around internet dating sites for about a year and it seems most of the people are scammers and con artist. I met a guy on one site, we chatted regularly for almost two months. He told me about his family and friends. We discussed many different topics. I was beginning to look forward to meeting him, when out of no where 'the pitch' began. "I just need you to do me a small financial favor". I was totally flabbergasted, how could I not see it coming. I considered myself pretty BS savvy until then. Now I am suspect of everyone. How do you wade through the crap to find someone worth corresponding with?
ladyb63 Forum Posts (13)
RE: PROFILE
I may be overly critical, but... I look at how well they communicate. I don't respond to msgs I have to decode.