I have never had a date in my whole life lol .. they never were like that of the stories u have all posted... feels strange now i read them all and go hmm very odd " chin stroking stuff". Thay all seemed to be in groups and evolved into sumthing with still people around .. never a " i like u ,you like me lets go on a date " sort of thing... Awhh well their ya go ...
I am a picese.. ment to be a dreamer , cant handle reality to well or conflict, wildly mysterious and charamastic , loyal , sensitive We are ment to be mid-blowing in the bedroom , but sadly i never have slept with a picese so i cant realy vouch for that last bit I read all this in a chinese star sign book the real full thing apparently .. it said it all ..all the things that are sadly deemed as weak traits in a person.. the only thing i didnt see written in the list was a.. " kenny your only a wally "
WHAT ?? hmm as in ok ur in scotland .. to be able to witness the first ever use of the word BONNY or some other mad turn of phrase you have or just a word you like to say alot ..
I have said this to certain people and it seems to be lost on them but i find it abit fun and very intetresting at the same time ...
If you could witness the first every use ( as in first ever never to have ben ever formed in someones mouth before )of 5 words may it be country slang or oxford dictionary english , what would they be and maybe why as well .. when u think of all the mad irish slang and even the word for example air ... why is it called air and not somthing else .. This maybe totaly geeky but i think its worth a tread .. Enjoy
Well here it is folks.. and callin all men .. plz for the love of god dont be to pc about this .. i know most of you are still tryin to be cool and smart and very vague just incase you put your foot in it with someone you talking to here but .. hey if we dont tell them they wont learn.. So here it is .. 1:Women who say , no pic no reply .. but yet have no pic up themselves ..playing on the man being scoped out before he will get a reply .. 2:the big long impossible "he must be " list .. where do they think men are made ..Dell perhaps made to measure 3:Woman tryin to make out that they arent into the phyisical aspect of dating sites as the men .. if your picture dont hit the spot .. most of the time you wnt get a reply !!! And finaly .. hmm i got into alot of trouble when i stated this before ... but here it goes.. 4:Women who put on their profiles lookin for friendship only etc .. sorry to say this but this is a dating site .. we are here to try and see if we can find a date that may lead sumwhere ..Are we not ? Yes we can chat and see who is who and what is what but when you are a man trying to get a date and you see a profile with friendship on it ... Do you send the mail or dnt you ?
Anyway take it away from here .. and disclaimer.. not all women are like this and not all the men are tryin to be vague .. Enjoy ....
lord .. does it matter who at this stage .. cause looks like everyone is on their high horse abt it ... like i said i was just reading between the lines .. and im not defending him as i dnt know even if the lad remembers even being at a pc when he did it .. if he is an arsehole then he is then again he may not be ... u just dnt know .. Anyway il get of my apparent high horse and go comment on another wrong post lol.. Think everyone needs a breather ...
I am just reading between the lines as in obiviously the whole reason he said what he said was havin had problems with a certain person or in a bad run of form .. Yes it was abit blunt and maybe brutal .. but i think we all kinda know he wasnt on abt all women just certain ones ...
Well that was part of my first post .. not to be given such a reception as in slagged for it , i said nuting abt not forgiving him.. as i dnt see anything wrong with what he wrote( bar grammar and spelling lol ) same as if a women came on and said that abt men .. she be 50% right staight off the bat i think
Oh yes i know all to well abt how sadly alot of men are when they are out .. but im not on abt the men that wont go away , im just talkin abt in general terms like i see alot of women walk around bars and clubs like they are super models and they could be as far away as ur nearest lighthouse from it but even if a man wud even dare say hello they give the once over look like they just stood on sumthing . I see it alot with work .. ur the best thing ever when u can play their song a totaly bast*"d when you wont play it " like right now " . But outside the dj box most wont even agknowledge you and you wouldnt even get as much as a hello back from a friendly hi as you walk past ..
Lord his profile is a bit of a mess alright .. but still hope you dont mind me sayin no reason to be given such a reception tho , u never know he mite come back and see me made a mess of his profile and clear it up only to see him being slated on the fourms ... u never know he mite have ben loaded drunk after gettin the elbow .. Having read the replies .. have to say being a dj for 13 years and worked all over the country .. i have seen a very nasty steak in irish women more often than id like to admite seening .. SOME NOT ALL NOW !!!
Well from haven ben on this site lord for ever it seems lol long time ago i remember like most of the datin sites etc .. the fourm was very closed to outsiders even when ud post and post and reply to threads it was always the same and some friends of mine have had the same experience .. Sadly... honestly casting ur opinion on a topic etc .. never was what they realy wanted on here .. that may have changed but .. like 1 time i stated that the fourm " at the time " had decended into a gossip chat room rather than a actual dating site and wondered why ? lord talk abt left out in the cold lol Anyway .even what i just wrote mite be to much for here but their ya go ..
Its a tough one to call it realy all depends on the person , i know one women who met a american guy while she was on holiday and they chatted and stayed kinda together and he decided to try living here for few months and she end'd headin over their and now from what i can gather they are happy here in ireland .. it all depends on the person and your past experiences . Its very hard to tell with people thesdays if the juice is worth the squeeze . Like flyin to the uk now is so cheap , my old land lady her guy used to fly from uk to dublin every weekend for next to nuting les than a train from mayo to dublin and in less than half the time , so makes u think !!! Obiviously everyone would like to discover a gem local under some rock ..but sadly it rarely happens like that and with the world opening up for people so much now ur more likely to find someone far away as u are local...
Its a tough one to call it realy all depends on the person , i know one women who met a american guy while she was on holiday and they chatted and stayed kinda together and he decided to try living here for few months and she end'd headin over their and now from what i can gather they are happy here in ireland .. it all depends on the person and your past experiences . Its very hard to tell with people thesdays if the juice is worth the squeeze . Like flyin to the uk now is so cheap , my old land lady her guy used to fly from uk to dublin every weekend for next to nuting les than a train from mayo to dublin and in less than half the time , so makes u think !!! Obiviously everyone would like to discover a gem local under some rock ..but sadly it rarely happens like that and with the world opening up for people so much now ur more likely to find someone far away as u are local...
well i have 3 married sisters and 2 have fell tru and the 3rd has ben on the rocks more times arthur .. sorry old 80's film title thrown in their ahem .. anyway .. i think keepin things as fresh and as interesting as possible makes things work long term and support and imtimacy follows natualy i feel .. But maybe this is just me ... after years of a relationship .. to see you partner walk into a room and to go .. hmm yummie .. is such a great feeling..sadly i never got that far yet hehe anything yummie always seem to be talking to some other bloke .. or giving out to me cause i didnt play britney spears ( im a gj by the way )
the commitment of marriage doesnt change much, you both are either commited to eachother or not, JMO!!!.. What does JMO mean ? Oh i know all abt the parents that dnt realy want the kids they have .. its so sad to see .. but i think that you can be commited to 1 person and not get married . I dont know how this will sound but im the type of guy that if i was in a long term relationship and after say 5/6 years was asked why will i not get married and show my "commitment" all id feel the urge to say would be "so the last 6 years of working to keep things going through good times and bad isnt comittment ?"
.you have to think of the future and kids etc....... hmm when i seen that on one of the replyies , it makes me think of the diff between a more traditional relationship and a more modern aspect of one .. Does their have to be kids ? does their even have be marraige .. i mean in this day and age yes marraige is a commitment but no matter how much you love eachother its still pressure , because then ur automaticaly ment to be havin kids and all the rest , i know lots of people whom.. wud welcome a serious realtionship ie .. move in etc .. but just enjoy the .. well how do i put this the manoveurabilty ( dnt think i spelt it right ) on having your own independance down the road but still be in a serious / loving relationship .. As for the age , i am 31 now and have ben with people alot younger through the years and one think i find the failure of most of them is .. '' confusion '' on the part of the woman not knowing what they want or when or how to get it .. so it realy depends on the person and the way they are .. if they are a more traditional type .. they may look apoun an age gap as a reason not to committ.. ie if the women is alot older say in her 40's 50's and the man is alot younger and he wants kids , their maybe a problem with dwn the road may mean to late to have any .. or if its the womne that is young and the man older .. he may feel that he mite be holding her back from a more exciting life .. travel/experiences etc ... sorry for the rant lol just spotted the tread just started typing lol
Hmm Reading that tread .. hehe has me thinking .. men do listen but they are all to familar with the line which goes sumthing like this.. " but i though thats what u said in the car 5 mins ago ? WOMAN .. yes but i ment etc etc ..." I think men in general do listen , they may not look like it or act like it but most do .. yes if u are ranting away while they are glued to a match they want to watch .. they will tune out .. women do that to .. but we men never hear abt that .. cause we know that if corrie is on or csi or greys anth etc and the women follows it relegiously like men at times do football or the news or whatever .. u mite as well be talkin to the wall ...!!! I read these problem pages in the papers and agony aunt things and its so funny ..it seems to be full of how to change ur boyfriend form the man he actualy is .. into the man u want him to be .. so in reality u dont want the man for who he is in the first place .. which makes no sense at all !! Yes their are alot of men out their whom are totaly self indulgent and into themselves so much they just dnt care what ur talkin abt and when they want sumthing they are all ears .. and i admit that .. I bought a womens help book called secrets abt men that all womne should know ... and i sware it was the funniest book i ever read until i got so tired of the same old bull dressed up as so called fact i just closed it Plus its alot to do with conversation topic , if you pick a topic that you both know abt its grand but .. when a woman picks a topic like say fashion and clothes and tings like that ..its the ssme as a man talkin abt the indept reasons why robino signed for man city not chelsea and chat abt it for 30 mins .. wudnt you be glazed eyed ?
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RE: Galway Oct 17/18/23/24?
Hi all just wondering who has sign up for this meet up in galway ?