Trinity I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost a child too many years ago and I know that pain. My advice to you is this. Live each day like it is your last, love as much as you can with no expectations of anything in return. Love yourself enough to let yourself heal. Don't be looking for another woman until you know you are strong again. It is really quite a strengthening experience to just be alone and learn to see the world thru new eyes.
The most amazing things can happen when you least expect it. Trust that the goodness inside you will attract a good woman... when the time is right. Let the past go now... and do not harbour hatred or bitterness for your exwife. In fact, in my experience the most liberating thing is to forgive. She may not deserve it but the forgiveness is for your benefit not hers. You don't want to carry negativity with you... it is a burden and a cross you don't need to bear.
I wish you well. I think you have lots to give. Just love who you are right now and that special lady will recognize your goodness when she sees it. God bless you!
Um....Ali, this is not your typical American woman! This is what most men wish was typical but thankfully woman don't usually com airbrushed and photoshopped like this. Typical just means your average, every day person and how they act in a "general" sort of way. So everything from your young fit beauties to your old wrinkled, baggy women... typical.
BTW... I am Canadian so I am just putting in my two bits. Now! Your typical Canadian woman.... Whooo weeee.... that's a different story! LOL
There are countless books and studies and personal accounts of people who have died and returned to tell about it. When my Dad died he came back in a dream to tell me that he was OK and safe. Same thing happened when my Mom died but that dream was even more intense and let me know that for sure she was on the other side. The OP mentioned about all the innocent people dying and why so I guess I can mention my opinion on that one too. I think that since all humans have free will to choose good from evil and vice versa there will always be suffering and pain in this world. After all, if we were all forced to do good and to love God that wouldn't be real at all... love has to be freely given and goodness has to be a choice from within our own souls. So why would there not be an afterlife? What proof does anyone have to say that once dead we just rot and go to nothing but blackness? If you look at it like this then I would say there is a lot more evidence that people move on to another plain once dead than there is evidence that we just die and rot.
What is it exactly that all of us want more than anything? Unconditional love and acceptance....
Soooooo....God is that which we all yearn for and that which we all seek. It doesn't matter if you think God is this and I think God is that. What matters is that when we find Him we know Him. I have found unconditional love and acceptance in Jesus Christ my Lord. He is God....
Or... to make it super duper simple.... God is LOVE!
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RE: what do women actually want
Trinity I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost a child too many years ago and I know that pain. My advice to you is this. Live each day like it is your last, love as much as you can with no expectations of anything in return. Love yourself enough to let yourself heal. Don't be looking for another woman until you know you are strong again. It is really quite a strengthening experience to just be alone and learn to see the world thru new eyes.The most amazing things can happen when you least expect it. Trust that the goodness inside you will attract a good woman... when the time is right. Let the past go now... and do not harbour hatred or bitterness for your exwife. In fact, in my experience the most liberating thing is to forgive. She may not deserve it but the forgiveness is for your benefit not hers. You don't want to carry negativity with you... it is a burden and a cross you don't need to bear.
I wish you well. I think you have lots to give. Just love who you are right now and that special lady will recognize your goodness when she sees it. God bless you!