Hello everybody - I would like to start by wishing you all a merry merry Christmas and who knows? You might find yourself kissing someone under the mistletoe
Internet dating is similar to any other sort of dating. You meet the true, genuine and sincere ones, you may meet someone interesting but maybe the other half may not be interested, in the end be it over CS or could be anywhere else you will meet someone that reciprocates your interest and above all - sincerity.
You also meet people who are not what they portray themselves over a profile too - but it could happen everywhere.
However the spirit is - NEVER GIVE UP ON LOVE, for it requires patience, sacrifice and determination.
Just don't figure out why would you like to expose yourself. Especially with certain typos around here. Then if you want to blunt where you've hidden your money please do so - but preferrably drop me a private message
Hi there Freeze Yes I do write a lot - Very interesting subjects around plus I think it's important to be seen or rather read as well as reading other people's views. It's part of getting to know eachother.
Also maybe just posting a profile and no effort may be less fruitful.
Luxembourg is very similar to Malta - only 400,000 as a population. Going out - I used to be the one that never misses a noght out, then it turnd t oweekends, nowadays I got so sick of it that I generally jst drain my energies in work - even non-profit now.
I'm not saying I've got the best of a lifestyle but I still do meet my friends once in a while - a sacrifice when they still want to go clubing and I'm looking for a cute and intelligent woman that maybe fancies movies, theatre, music - whatever genre even classical (Please spare me from ballet though).
A good way for meeting people, excercising and releasing endorphins is hiking - that's my next quest to get to meet people that like me are adventurous.
I used to attend drama classes - loads of women there too - never met anyone that's really my type there - however I was a very shy person before I started - mst say not quite shy nowadays after having seen audiences of 800 a night.
Right now I'm taking psychology classes - I was wondering why there were 10 women and just me there - maybe women do take psychology studies to try to understand us men? Coincidentally!
Religions are there to believe in and try to make sense in things that aren't so logical.
But maybe it isn't what we see on the news or experience ourselves. Religions are more like political parties and some seem to be dictatorial unfortunately.
If we're talking about DeJaVue (neural short circuit) scientifically it's that the past and present are temporarily linked together. DeJ Vues are often experienced around the afes of 9 to 23 due to physical growth of the brain. Electrical impulses from the past memory are conveyed to the conscious due to shifting of neurons and glia - the protective lining and sort of insulator around neural cells and clusters.
Then if you imagined how's it going ot be around the corner in all details and so it was - then you probably either were there already or somewhere you've heard aboout it.
There surely are some problems with this country such as the following in my opinion: 1) there aren't enough social clubs that aren't affiliated with politics, sport or any of the usual stuff. So maybe there comes a problem where to find a serious woman - definitely not going to meet someone in Paceville (the local entertainment centre) 2) there's quite a number of single women here but maybe they still haven't signed up here or any site of the sort, 3) statistically (guys do correct me if I'm wrong) there are more women than men on the island 4) women are more ready to find a foreigner and leave the island than men - probably even due to the fact that there are career implications hence men are less willing to leave the island. 5) try searching any country and you'll always find more male profiles than female.
Then let's face it - women are more sociable here and know where to find a man - there are too many men that just pretend an easy lay and instead of going to proper social places just hang around bars, football and band clubs.
As you might have pointed out - I'm neither a football lover, nor a band club one. Rather go to some cultural place say theatre.
Everything looks great at the beginning. But then when it's up to committments... Standing at a bar the chances are also someone kept a conversation just as he made a bet with a friend about the playboy he is.
Suggestion: Try out different places, say a cultural club or see what's available around where you live. Could even be evening classes you'd be gaining knowledge plus who knows...
So far this has been my favourite site - it's free and as it's meant to be, you don't buy love with a 6 month visa paid account.
I got the best responses so far - still some aliens around (not to be insultive) but generally the aliens are the loosers and won't hag on for too long.
Genuine people - you could meet someone live in a cafe' and then you discover they are not. So the risks are still the same with this.
But it's easier for the lazy cheeky ones to sit on a computer and just drop in a profile, with a pic thatmaybe is not theirs and fool or swindle around.
It's all matter of luck and how long can a conversation be kept over the emailposts through time.
Well - it depends on what are you asking for. Some ppl are good looking but really typos then. Others are not so appealing but may be a goldmine of love and respect.
Intelligence: There's a difference between accademically loaded with papers, Wise, smart.
Probably somewhere in the middle of the three would be the best. But what is the measure or scale for smartness, intelligence, practicality and the lot?
The people we meet are a reflection of ourselves in a mirror - what goes around comes around. How we treat others and regard others is just how they will see us in return.
Then there'ssomething else to it. eople do change. Some for the good, some for the bad. So might you be changing.
The most important thing is to be happy with oneself and never loose it or get mad at the world as it happens
A bit of a blunt question, but here's another side to it:
For some people it is not just about getting laid. People want kids, procreation, as they subconsciously believe in the extension of their life through the creation of a younger self.
Then yes, I do agree with you - it's nice to have someone you dream about and whom to hug. At times there may be arguments and it's healthy like that, else it's like living with your clone and there's little chance for growth in a relation.
If ppl had to think about why did they do this and that, it could be a nightmare, possibly leading to an existential crisis - let's face it - What is the scope of being here and why procreation? It will only create more people with more of the same question.
Dreams are something else to ask about - why do we dream? It may be an answer to some of our questions that cannot possibly be answered consciously through the chaos of life? Or is it just random recall of truths and fictions?
The things we do are our reflection in the mirror something that reflects who we are or want to be, the offspring of thought patterns in synchrony.
Was it not so, it would be as bad as running a computer with possibly error messages like 'do you want to format this insignificant dream now?'.
Yourself being a painter it would be interesting to keep a personal diary and write down what goes on along the days, particularly things that were remarkable and had influence on you - tse would be likely to drive the inspiration.
Look at that painting in some days from now, or a couple of years from now, and you'l recogn things about your character. A reflection in the mirror.
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RE: does the internet dating really work?
Hello everybody - I would like to start by wishing you all a merry merry Christmas and who knows? You might find yourself kissing someone under the mistletoeInternet dating is similar to any other sort of dating. You meet the true, genuine and sincere ones, you may meet someone interesting but maybe the other half may not be interested, in the end be it over CS or could be anywhere else you will meet someone that reciprocates your interest and above all - sincerity.
You also meet people who are not what they portray themselves over a profile too - but it could happen everywhere.
However the spirit is - NEVER GIVE UP ON LOVE, for it requires patience, sacrifice and determination.