You know my schedule. I think I'll just have to start traveling. I've heard one time with me keeps em' satisfied for about 6 months. So I should be good.
I used to be a little shyer than I am now. The fear of rejection thing does hit home. Honestly, when you approach a woman that is out of your leauge (or if you believe that to be the case) you have already setup yourself for the blow off. So approaching it at that level brings an entire different sent of emotions into the transaction between prey and hunter.
I was on an island in Lake Erie a few years ago and it was some strangers birthday, he was walking around the bar hitting on every beautiful woman in the place. After being shot down by every attempt he ended up talking to me for a bit. I asked him why he put himself out there like that. His response was simple.
"I'm 40 swing and miss"
Those words have echo'd though my head ever since I heard them. So at that point a bit of my shyness went away.
I was actually trying to pump up a friend of mine at a bar a couple weeks ago. I used this logic to convince him not to be afraid of approaching a nice looking woman...
If I am sitting somewhere and some stanger comes up to me and says something I would answer. If they were female and nice looking I would think hey I might have a chance with her, if they were not someone I was attracted to then I would still say "hey that was nice of them to take some time out of their evening to approach me". I think that woman are sort of the same way as we are. The only problem with that logic is if you are like the 10th guy to approach the woman in which case you are already pre-determined to be some leach and you are not even given a chance.
So there it is, beautiful are hard to approach because usually they have been hit on so much that they are sick of it.
Hey don't worry the people on here will just try to break you all the way down so that when your rebuilt your a fine tuned machine.
Welcome, this really is one of the best places to be, as far as the singles sites go, just keep on laughin' when it comes to that marriage piece though.
Yea I agree I think they posted correctly. Most of these threads are the same thing over and over anyway.
Why don't we get down to some real topics here instead of the waste of time subjects. Let's ask some real questions.
I'll start in my next thread.
Thanks for the feedback, it does seem like most people are here for the cheap conversation and the club feel you get based on the fact that this site is not widely used by the masses, yet.
I guess I'll just have to face those fact and let the pipe dream fade.
I know there are different reasons for putting a profile on sites like this. My question to you is who and what do you think you'll finds here or on one of the other hundreds of sites out there. How many profiles beyond this one do you have roaming the internet.
Personally I am starting to feel bad about being out there.
The poster asked "where did I go wrong". After 4 weeks at this I'll say....
You went wrong when you actually thought that you would get a date online, I would say that in reality finding someone that you might be attracted to and have any type of future with is about 5% from one of these sites.
Better use is discussing why you are so screwed up and what happened in past relationships so that you can grow and then use the data you acquired from chatting with these folks to make an attempt to not make the same mistakes again.
To be honest this place is pretty slow, I myself have only been doing these sites for around 4 weeks and have tried quite a few different ones during that time.
Just put yourself out there and be honest. Well I think women want honesty? But the guy a few spots above is right. I have learned that most women that are not looking for a serious relationships want the bad guy, once they get burned by him they want the nice guy. In the end that type of person will flip flop so many times that in the end they'll be a pancake. Flapjacks are cheap.
So stay on the nice path, keep your chin up and you will find someone, they'll probably won't find you so just send out as many intos as you can in every method possible and eventually something will click.
Hi out there I have posted a couple time already but never really said hi to all you out there. So there it is a big HELLO from Ohio, hope your Friday morning, or night depending on where you are at in the world is going well.
I have a question..
I signed up for a few different sites about a week ago, just trying to meet people, and this is the only that offers all this for free. Why wouldn't everybody just come here? This site is the best.
I have had some limited success already with a couple contacts, so it has not all been for not. You know if everyone out there used the same site then I think we could all have it a lot easier in our search. So promote this site every chance you get.
I am new to this site and online dating in general. What experiences have people out there had with this stuff. Is it really just a waste of time, a pipe dream? LMK.
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RE: I put forth a challenge....
You know my schedule. I think I'll just have to start traveling. I've heard one time with me keeps em' satisfied for about 6 months. So I should be good.