If you are happy about yourself, it shouldn't matter wether you are a 6 or 26.
You don't need a man to make you feel good about yourself, they usually end up making you feel inadiquate anyway.
And like it has been said many times on this thread, you can't change a mans preference. They get this idea of their perfect women into their head and nothing is going to change that. Men are shallow creatures of habit.
RE: BIG BROTHER
couldn't agree with you more...