Sorry, I missed that, but hope it's not to late to reply.
More to the point? If you say so!? I'll answer (easy way out for you, but ok.... I supose you don't HAVE the answer to my simple question)
I'm not that good looking realy, just ok I guess (look at my other pics) but hey, ofcourse I didn't put my worst pics up here. Thx anyway!
Being dutch and not fluent in English, I have no idea what snappy means, but if you talk about the suit..... yes, I thought it was appropriate to put it on being second on my little sisters wedding. Yes, it was a very nice day thank you.
My income stinks, I hardly survive. Spain is in Crisis, more so than the rest of europe. I have a wood workshop and do some occasional designing. I tell you man, it's not easy.
Most woman I date, sorry I have to correct that, all women I date are not after my money, for the simple reason I don't have it, and they know it, it's not a shame or secret for me. Nevertheless -would you believe it?- we not only have a good time, but actualy mutual respect
Why can't I find a woman? Wish I could tell you. Some people believe in faith, others in change. I have no idea, I am totaly agnostic about most things. All I know, I didn't meet her yet (well, in all honesty, I thought I did find her, she was the reason for me to move to spain, just didn't work out. One of those little pains in my heart I will have to live with. Don't worry, I'm ok)
I think that answers your next question. Besides for the forums where I can exchange thoughts and ideas wich people like yourself, of course the main reason is to increase my chances finding the love of my life. Not desperately, and not only here but also in the "real" life. Who knows?
Next thing you say is a bit confusing to me, if you don't mind me saying. You obviousely had the wrong idea about my wealth and such (that's ok) and you despice woman who are just after that. Nevertheless, your (wrong) idea about who and what I am, should have been a reason for a DECENT woman to "snap" me? (haha, there is that funny word again) Anyway, please explain, I'm a bit slow.
Yes, it was food for my thoughts, thank you. And I did think about it, and here you have my answer.
Btw, I tend to think that the mind (and therefor thoughts)is good for day to day use, but can be very disturbing as well In my opinion, true wisdom (not claiming I have a lot, but growing) comes from the heart.
Just 50 years ago, people would go for "good enough". Yes, some dramas were a result of that, but lots of good-enough-relationships ended in perfection, or at least everything they ever dreamed of.
Nowadays, everybody is striving for mr or mss Perfect. Not saying that is a bad thing, as long as we are aware of the danger never finding what we are looking for. I mean, perfection kind of dimminishes the odds, doesn't it?
Some people would say... Fine, I'll stay single.
Others, like me, miss the warmth of someone close, note only talking physicly, but even more so a mental partner and say.... well, if something nice (AND honest both ways) comes along, why not, even just for a while.
Let's put it like this, Maybe one day I will find the woman of my dreams, and if I do her little mistakes will not spoil my idea of her being perfect. Actualy, I like imperfection, mentaly and physicely (to much to explain here)
But, I've had a relationship with a woman, while we both knew we would not be together for the rest of our lives. Something in between just good and nice, and my dream.
You are going to travel 2000km for her, and only THEN get her telephone number, no actualy HOPE to get her telephone number?
If I were you I would like to have just a tiny little bit more information in advance. Even, or maybe because she is "playing hard to get".
Not saying you shouldn't. I did! I left everything I had in Holland behind me and moved to Spain (2500km) to be with the woman I fell in love with. Btw, by that time I did have her telephone number....
She's married now, no no, not to me.
Another thing, hope you don't mind me saying this... Not the same for everybody ofcourse, but I personaly would not be happy being discused in a forum.
A few years ago, I dated a single mom of a 4 yo boy. We got along fine, all of us. But from the very beginning it was clear that she and I would not spend the rest of our lives together, we were just two single souls on this huge planet, looking for some good company, and she truly was.
One morning I went out for 1 minute just to park my car at a better spot on the drive.
The little boy heard my car, thought I was leaving without saying goodbye and started crying.
That was the point where I realised what a huge influence a mom's lover is in the life of a child. My heart broke for the little man.
I think we did the right thing, we stopped our relationship. nothing, not even a good time between 2 adults, was worth the tears of this child.
Hope it's ok if I jusy copy/paste my post from the first thread.
"Yes ofcourse it changes how I feel, the imidiate responsibility, the diminnished posibility of doing anything at any moment you feel like it, the danger of not being accepted by the child(ren) and the tension that could bring between me and my lover, etc. So I would probably be more aware of the big step, after all more lifes are influenced than just hers and mine
I like to think, truly hope it would not change the way I feel about the woman, so...A single mum would be very welcom im my life"
Well, don't respect me for it, it's just not apealing for me anyway, so it was no effort. Just by change we somehow got there, last place to close and therefor we went in realy. But it was less sleezy than I thought it would be, and we had a good time. And I met some realy friendly girls, so.....
1 of the two times I ever visited a club like that, not realy my thing.
Once I went into a gentlemens club, after not even 5 min the girls were sitting next to me, as they do. (not only with me ofcourse) Their goal ofcourse is for you to buy them the expensive drinks, if not more expensive "refreshments".
I happened to wear a black suit that night with a white shirt (actualy, a dark grey suit, but you know, these places, they don't put lots of lights on, so it looked black)
I managed to convince them in believing I was a priest, just joining in with some old school mates. And ofcourse I was not allowed to do anything physical, nor could I spent to much of the church monney. They bought it!
Not only did I have quite a few nice talks with a few girls (some of them actualy surprisingly smart), but they even bought ME a drink.
Probably the only time in my life my friends concidered me "the man of the day" because I did NOT..... well, you know.
(I know, such a club, pretending to be a priest, bad bad bad. ok girls, shoot me......this must have been 20 years ago, does that diminish my punishment)
1 UFO, Unidentified Flying Object, of course I do, there are people who see things (even flying) that they can't identify.
2. Aliens, I'm not so sure. I theory the odds us being alone in the vasd universe is inconceivable, but I never saw one, and can't understand why -if they exist and have the capacity to visit us- why they wouldn't come and spend some time here, even open a ambasy or such, or teach us, or kill us, or mate, or etc....
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RE: Where are the most beautiful womans?
You have a excelent taste!(is that correct english?)