I totally agree with u. At the moment when one of the parties in a couple has to do something by force, or has to put some effort to do it, It is not coming out natural, then something is wrong because when u have love everything u do or u are for the other person has to come from the heart and it suppose to be easy. as george straight says: "it's so easy loving u" Everything based on love just comes natural.
RE: Who would
who made u believe that?