Those books were all written after the trials that took place in Poland in 1947, so if someone writes a book about Obama today and doesnt mention "fast and furious", which most reporters today would not, that will mean it never happend.
I don't believe in soulmate, because how would you explain divorce? If you say they were no soulmates then isn't it possible your soulmate is married to someone else right now?
I believe you have to figure out what your ideal match is and she will appear in your life. It helps to know what you want in a mate.
RE: Does Language differences hinder love?
if it is serious, you might try to learn her language for better communication