Hiya Kim First there is no easy answer,and much depends on the type of split thats taken place,amicable or complete hell,either will take its toll on the child but as damage control,as a guy and a full time worker children see much more in mum or if roles reversed dad,thats their comfort in times of need,the split is between couples and this is were anger,blackmail,deciept gets used on the kids to choose, no one is better as you are both parents and responsible till they have a home and family of their own and even then it does'nt stop,but never stop the visits just put in place set days and times and conditions of behavour,this generaly stops people saying and doing wrong,if the other party is serious they will bend ,beg plead,and tow the line,if they fail keep a record of events and remove the visits via a court order. If you are interested in my view please mail me ,best of luck my friend and take care.....................gray
HI kinda agree with all above but surely you need to be realistic. eg financies,travel time,% of criteria of both match's,then if its there heaven and earth won't stop ya,go for it.
Hi bud hows it goin?. I'm south west Dorset,been here a while hopefuly be able to answer quest's but i'm st8t,so knock ya self out,so what things are you looking for all over, besides that.? lol
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RE: do you let your ex see your child he gave up his rights to?
Hiya KimFirst there is no easy answer,and much depends on the type of split thats taken place,amicable or complete hell,either will take its toll on the child but as damage control,as a guy and a full time worker children see much more in mum or if roles reversed dad,thats their comfort in times of need,the split is between couples and this is were anger,blackmail,deciept gets used on the kids to choose, no one is better as you are both parents and responsible till they have a home and family of their own and even then it does'nt stop,but never stop the visits just put in place set days and times and conditions of behavour,this generaly stops people saying and doing wrong,if the other party is serious they will bend ,beg plead,and tow the line,if they fail keep a record of events and remove the visits via a court order.
If you are interested in my view please mail me ,best of luck my friend and take care.....................gray