Yes123 Forum Posts (28)

RE: Doing the right thing!

With any community...it always will be a weeding out process.

There always seems to be one (to be weeded out)

RE: Doing the right thing!

If you can't flight them off (which we know your able to with just your little toe!), of course the vast majority of men we have assembled here would come to your aid Princess Leia

RE: Editing emails

Yes your right with the personal email your using. But if you want to edit emails as a matter of fact and frequently, then there are services available away from your current email.

RE: do women automatically reject someone with a physical handicap?

Be Very happy your out of the rat race!

RE: Editing emails

The admin could allow this, either for 24 hours after the post has been made, always, or for "approved" users only. But it looks like none of this has been made available.

RE: Editing emails

It does not "sit well" with me. But its possible to do, however you will have to sign up for the service and have an email address from the company offering this service (with an attached cost).

Check you know the domain part of the email when you receive an email if you think the email maybe "dodgy" but then they can fake that too.

You can't do this kind of thing with the usual emails people usually use, like gmail, yahoo etc.

RE: do women automatically reject someone with a physical handicap?

It must keep you busy ? do you have to do "on call" and shifts ?

In the health field i'm in, in the US you guys are better at "running with the ball" after the technology has been initially invented in Europe...approval happens quickly over here.

RE: Editing emails

There are company's that offer this service. Long ago I looked at a service and it had cost. I can't remember what was being charged.

In simple terms its done by sending a web page with the typed message on it (it looks like any email which is send)...but like a web page...what is written can be edited or deleted.

RE: which is your best romantique movie ever, till today?

The film, the Secretary was nominated for a number of awards and won several, with numerous awards won by Maggie Gyllenhaal for her breakthrough performance.

RE: club tropicana

If you want to drink as much as you want to...and be surrounded by half naked girls...














...go to a swimming pool ! (sorry, I could not resist)

RE: which is your best romantique movie ever, till today?

There are so many, but this film has something I can't put my finger on

RE: do women automatically reject someone with a physical handicap?

2intrigued your one of the better posters (A true rebel for the cause!)

I was going to add... spare a thought also for many others too, such as those with:

1) Hidden impairments, of which the symptoms can manifest in many ways and are not "see-able" by others (as opposed to someone with a limb missing) but is still very much causing some kind of pain or suffering. i.e they have a loss to one of their senses.

2) Symptoms which fluctuates where there are good days and bad days.

3) Things which has got to do with "Wellbeing" and "quality of life" issues, which then brings us to, treating the whole patient and that the least invasive approach should come first (of which are altogether whole new topics in themselves)

RE: what kind of things men does not want to have in woman

Thats a good example. The symptoms are vague and can easily be brushed off as being something else such as being unhealthy or being just plain lazy, stressed or having a temper etc

The symptoms can be very bad indeed. I read a lot about it as a close relative had it.

One of the books I highly recommend is:

"Coping with Thyroid Problems" by Joan Gomez

Joan Gomez is a consultant and her mother had it, and the detailed way she writes, is excellent.

RE: Stress Relief

A Dr friend of mine in Arizona told me (bear with me on this) that our eyes have been designed from the time we was Neanderthal caveman/women.

And as such they are designed to see far in to the planes/the horizon to see approaching danger/predictors, or to see herds in the distance to hunt or to seek a mate. This ability was crucial in their survival.

Since that time it has not been necessary to do this and we do not often look in to the horizon.

Many people who live in areas where they can not see the horizon, feel stressed as their eye muscles are not relaxed, but are when they look into the horizon.

This stress many be felt more in the cities or town where often you can not see the horizon in built up residential areas and there is a stress living in these urban places due to that.

So see if you can find a near by place to visit, like a beach, where you get a chance to see the horizon. Failing that, this effect can be felt by going up in to a tall building and seeing where the sky meets the earth, if possible.

Even shutting your eye and imagining that your seeing the horizon may help, i'm told.

This is just one form of "stress" there are others. I did find going to the local beach, did surprisingly make me feel relaxed for days afterwards.

I work with a lot of disabled organisations and attend lectures and one of the things most people don't know is that stress can be due to:

1) thinking about the past too much.

2) thinking about the future too much.

3) Not thinking about now

They are just not thinking (enough) about NOW...THIS MOMENT

For example...shut your eyes for 10 mins, lay down or sit comfortable and start to think about NOW

Listen out for anything you can...see if you can hear the smallest of things

You will start to notice sounds you never really thought about...like the ticking of the clock...the cars going past out side...the birds singing...people and kids as they go past.

Then open your eyes...

Another thing thats good is swimming...when you leave the pool...you will leave the stress in there.

Let stress wash over you...like "water of a ducks back"

Stress is part and parcel of life, we are not made out of electric, but then they break down too.

RE: do women automatically reject someone with a physical handicap?

Often when I'm out, I see elderly couples and one of them is in a wheel chair and is getting pushed along by their partner...i think to myself this is something really very special going on in front of me and this is REAL LOVE

If us younger will ever see this type of love...I am not too sure on.

But for sure we will get older. And no ones immune.

So today it may be that person in a wheelchair that we reject, but tomorrow it might be us being rejected.

I work with a lot of disabled people by the way, on a pro bono basis.

RE: whhhy oh why!

Well said and good posts!

...and make sure you don't get into a "tangle" you can't get out off. For example meet in a public place etc

RE: whhhy oh why!

Too funny!

RE: whhhy oh why!

They maybe over come by you and are lost for words ? Give them the benefit of the doubt...someone might be good at typing out sweet nothings, do small talk, know an angle to work...but in "real life" may not be good at much else!

RE: When you go through your inbox do you

I try to keep away from those who send a message and they already have got "friends" on their profile.

RE: Finnish Fish

Good topic.

This is the only dating site I visit (and its been interesting)but I started become very involved in many forum for the past 15 years...so much so I think you can get addicted.

But I was researching a lot and it made a huge difference (and i'm not boasting) for many millions of people who had no medical treatment.

In this case, being addicted was good (!)

I do worry that being "addicted"...and being addicted too much where it takes time away.

Can you remewmber how you felt when your internet connection went down ? was you climbing upthe wall when it did ?

Have you had a misunderstanding online and fell out with a friend due to it ? did it feel terrible ?

So its real emotions thats going on.

I heard the phrase "revolving candy shop" used on the forum about this site. Also, I think its hard "to see the wood from the trees" and you can pin too much on how people are on their profile or on forums.

You got to give people and chance, but be careful as the interest is a double edged sword.

There must be a lot of nutters out there who gravitate towards using the net more as they are shunned elsewhere in real life.

I have online friends spanning many years and they live all over the place, so for me the quicker it gets away from online, the better (ie just picking up the phone or meeting up.

You can get "sick" of being online.

RE: what kind of things men does not want to have in woman

Opps!

RE: what kind of things men does not want to have in woman

Don't like women with a gun? worried they may get trigger happy ?



I was very happy for her in the end and very happy she could "handle it"!

RE: what kind of things men does not want to have in woman

Another problem is if you dissect something to examine or study it...you introvertedly end up destroying it...something you did not want at all to happen to start with.

RE: what kind of things men does not want to have in woman

I think another thing at play is raging hormones.

Then there is that question I remember our drama teacher asked us when we was 11 years old. Where do we get our personalities from ? is it something your born with or from our parents, family and friends and those we have known adding to it ?

RE: In what way a woman can make you feel being loved?

That post was for "Count_Me_In" (i should have quoted you in my last post)

RE: In what way a woman can make you feel being loved?

Do you have any advice you could pass on...lets compare notes!

RE: In what way a woman can make you feel being loved?

- Being able to love without losing energy - for both.
- In relationships, its the fear of being used - for both. If there is none of that going on, then that is something to hold aloft!
- Knowing what your lovers thinking when they are silent
- You don't have to worry about the relationship, when your back is turned.

Stuff like that and more! but those above as just a few things to think on from me studying the subject area ...generally its stuff which applies to both parties.

RE: Are women just in the relationship for the money ?

I haven't had the time to go through this threead but 2whats interesting about the poll is the wide difference of opinion. So it is a big issue.

I was once told by a girl "if you had a daughter, wouldn't you like her to be with someone who has money"?