2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK2,621 posts
suds00: it's been my experience that as soon as a women finds out you have a condition which slows you down somewhat that's it.
No. They're not automatically rejected. Without asking you to clarify your disability, maybe you should look at the type of women you're mailing instead. If they're of the type to discard someone so readily, maybe they have the problem, and not you? People tend to run away from things they don't understand, nor can handle.
Theres a guy in a thread somewhere else on the site, who's in a far worse situation that you, but he's in a far better mindset than you are. He's coming across as a more likeable person, and is showing that it's not all about being disabled or have a handicap, but how the person is as a whole package.
I happen to have Ms, have to use a cane, do most things, just slower. Am still fairly active, probably a lot more active than a lot of people without Ms.When I chat with women on the chatline, I make a point of mentioning it to them.I get stood up, lied to, spoke down to.... My Ms doesn't seem to be progressing, but I have learnt from it, learnt to be a more caring, understanding person. Someone who appreciates life that much more. For the way I ve been treated,by a lot of people, it shows me how many rude ignorant people there are in the world.
serene56: Perhaps some people with a disability do not have the complacency that can be present in able-bodied people who are fortunate to have good health
Maybe they are more in touch with what really matters in matters of the heart
Very well put. That is how I felt. Just didn't know how to say it.
serene56: Perhaps some people with a disability do not have the complacency that can be present in able-bodied people who are fortunate to have good health
Maybe they are more in touch with what really matters in matters of the heart
serene56: I find your posts insightful Kelsann, and I was inspired to think about it
Thank you kindly. Sometimes I get so excited or passionate about what I am posting that I leave out some little thing that would make my post a bit more insightful though.
kelsann: Thank you kindly. Sometimes I get so excited or passionate about what I am posting that I leave out some little thing that would make my post a bit more insightful though.
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