The day I let a guy in a lab coat (scientist) to tell me what love is it will be the day the sky turns green. Just because YOU can't love more than one person at the same time, it doesn't mean others can't do it.
Not all the people involved in a poly relationship are trying to "combine" different types of love to get more love. Nothing that selfish, never. They just want one love equal to all of those involved.
Not all poly relationships are doom to failure, I'm sure there must be some success stories out there, you just have to be open to listen to them.
There's no camparison, you are talking about people who can't choose, in the middle east marriages are arranged, guys and gals in a poly relationship are there cos they want to be.
That's just it, there's no such thing as "secure companionship", in any kind of relationship. For a relationship to work there has to be honesty, boundaries and real expectations, to expect a secure companionship would nullify the real expectations part.
You said people involved in Poly relationships were broken, there's broken people everywhere! even in what you would consider a "normal" relationship. To be in an "normal" relationship does not equal success. You can't label people on a Poly relationship as "broken".
Look at it this way: it's hard to meet the needs of one person in a relationship, think how much easier it would be if you have other people to support you, who have your back no matter what.
Why is it so difficult for you to believe there can be fidelity, trust, love, and honesty between the people involved.
Most couples today are divorced, so what does that make them? broken?
Well, I'm not going to pretend I'm an expert on the subject but your friend seems to be in an "open poly relationship" where multiple partners are allowed, there's also the "close" kind with one man and three or four women.
It's not a "trend" it's a way of life. Where love and understanding for one another it's the main goal.
Now let's see... I believe I have many of those, but I'm not sure I can put them here... Hmmmm... one thing I can't tell you though is that I like to look at the Orion's Belt whenever it's not too cloudy.
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Relinquish the men! I know you have them tied up in your basement...
RE: Both of the Chinese girl love me
Well I think that if a cousin loves his cousin it's their business.If their are both consensual adults I see nothing wrong with it.