Ok, it doesn't make sense to YOU, cos you are not poly. Fair enough.
I do however disagree with the constant comparison of modern poly life, with that of the Stone Age, and that people involved are somehow "broken". It seems quite narrow minded, IMHO.
I just checked, he's trying to say that many people are affraid to come clean about Poly, he's saying to those people: "speak up". The OP would like for those that feel they can love more than one person to share their thoughts.
I don't think the OP was attacking non-polyamourous individuals. He was merely defending himself from other people's attacks. Fighting back if you will.
No one is pointing a gun at anybody here and forcing them into this way of life.
RE: post the staple diet of your country....
I've never eaten beans. They are weird looking.