Is it ok for a man to use the same engagement ring with multiple women? (154)
Tacky is an understatement.
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Ouch, I wouldn't do anything like that.
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SoonerGal: My ex-husband in the 2 years we have been divorced almost got married twice, well recently he has a new gal and gave her the same engagement ring that he had given the previous too...I personally think this is tacky...just another reason we're divorced what are your thoughts on this, is it tacky or acceptable?
Of course, especially with this damn economy
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Your Ex, has a good sense of how to be economically
inexpensive
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CuddlingSoul: Ouch, I wouldn't do anything like that.
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bungallow55: Of course, especially with this damn economy
well here's another part of his character...mind you we were married 17 yrs, don't know how, but anyway...I still have my wedding ring which go upgraded around '09 which we paid almost 10 grand for...he ask me if I wanted to sell it so he could give it to this gal!!!! I said are you kidding me?!? He was quiet serious
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StillOfTheNight: Tacky is an understatement.
my thoughts exactly
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Its not just tacky, its indicative that he's not emotionally on an even keel, in my opinion.
It sounds to me like he's trying to satisfy a surface need of his with little understanding of the root cause, or empathy for the needs of others.
If this is the case, then its unlikely he'll be able to sustain a relationship that he's attempting to commit to forever and ever.
It sounds to me like he's trying to satisfy a surface need of his with little understanding of the root cause, or empathy for the needs of others.
If this is the case, then its unlikely he'll be able to sustain a relationship that he's attempting to commit to forever and ever.
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SoonerGal: well here's another part of his character...mind you we were married 17 yrs, don't know how, but anyway...I still have my wedding ring which go upgraded around '09 which we paid almost 10 grand for...he ask me if I wanted to sell it so he could give it to this gal!!!! I said are you kidding me?!? He was quiet serious
Then, forget what I have said...You're the smart one
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I've given the same ring 12 times.
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jac379: Its not just tacky, its indicative that he's not emotionally on an even keel, in my opinion.
It sounds to me like he's trying to satisfy a surface need of his with little understanding of the root cause, or empathy for the needs of others.
If this is the case, then its unlikely he'll be able to sustain a relationship that he's attempting to commit to forever and ever.
It sounds to me like he's trying to satisfy a surface need of his with little understanding of the root cause, or empathy for the needs of others.
If this is the case, then its unlikely he'll be able to sustain a relationship that he's attempting to commit to forever and ever.
Well what really gets me....when I left for good, within a week he had a gal moved in while still claiming all this undying love for me!!! He has truly gave love a very bad name...
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PS. If I were in your shoes (and maybe you've already done some of this), I'd be trying to work out what lack of understanding I had, or what skills I lacked in order to think marrying him was a good idea. That learning can then be taken to another healthier, happier relationship.
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chris27292729: I've given the same ring 12 times. Every one was pleased
Just wait till they find out
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SoonerGal: Well what really gets me....when I left for good, within a week he had a gal moved in while still claiming all this undying love for me!!! He has truly gave love a very bad name...
Nah, he's just provided you with a stepping stone to your own self-exploration and more centred self.
What he does isn't all that important. Its only important in as much as it gives you the stimulus to reflect upon yourself.
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jac379: PS. If I were in your shoes (and maybe you've already done some of this), I'd be trying to work out what lack of understanding I had, or what skills I lacked in order to think marrying him was a good idea. That learning can then be taken to another healthier, happier relationship.
that is why I haven't got into another relationship yet....going to take some time to get over and heal from that one...but yes, I'll take a whole different approach next time for sure
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SoonerGal: My ex-husband in the 2 years we have been divorced almost got married twice, well recently he has a new gal and gave her the same engagement ring that he had given the previous too...I personally think this is tacky...just another reason we're divorced what are your thoughts on this, is it tacky or acceptable?
He`s da Man...
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bungallow55: Just wait till they find out
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Dedovix: He`s da Man...
he's a something alright, man for sure is not the correct word!
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SoonerGal: My ex-husband in the 2 years we have been divorced almost got married twice, well recently he has a new gal and gave her the same engagement ring that he had given the previous too...I personally think this is tacky...just another reason we're divorced what are your thoughts on this, is it tacky or acceptable?
I'd say he must like recycling... good for the planet eh?
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spiritalk: Just another thought......there was a time when an antique piece of jewellery was passed through a family. And it was given as an engagement ring to many generations. It had commercial as well as emotional value.
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SoonerGal: no actually I'm a much happier person by far now...so really he didn't get the better of me I promise...I'm a much stronger person than that
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Obviously, more than a few guys view the symbolism of the ring differently than women. It's not just only a sign of marriage. To share that same ring beyond the couple that it was intended for is wrong.
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SoonerGal: My ex-husband in the 2 years we have been divorced almost got married twice, well recently he has a new gal and gave her the same engagement ring that he had given the previous too...I personally think this is tacky...just another reason we're divorced what are your thoughts on this, is it tacky or acceptable?
So whats the big deal .
If she doesn't know and he can save himself a bit of money ,maybe to buy a few beers , cant see the problem .
These Rings arnt cheap .
P.S. Lucky to get one at all .
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kariena: My ex wanted my ring back as well (I guessed it was for the new wife to be) but as a result from watching Titanic too many times, it landed at the bottom of the ocean. It felt soooooo good
lol! well mine wanted to buy it back, looking back I should have sold it too him at a higher cost than what we paid, it has NO meaning to me whatsoever other than a constant reminder how miserable I was
but I can see how wonderfully releasing that was for you!
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kariena: My ex wanted my ring back as well (I guessed it was for the new wife to be) but as a result from watching Titanic too many times, it landed at the bottom of the ocean. It felt soooooo good
Some people say is right ,some others say is wrong, to ask for a ring back.Personally i think is not the right thing,asking jewelry or presents, given to your ex back.------ This poll is Archived ------
WhistlingDixie: So whats the big deal .
If she doesn't know and he can save himself a bit of money ,maybe to buy a few beers , cant see the problem .
These Rings arnt cheap .
P.S. Lucky to get one at all .
If she doesn't know and he can save himself a bit of money ,maybe to buy a few beers , cant see the problem .
These Rings arnt cheap .
P.S. Lucky to get one at all .
since I'm not directly affected I could really careless, however all it done was just prove on a higher level of what a loser he really is and always was
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