SinkingSwimmer Forum Posts (35)

RE: guys listen

especially you

RE: Trust!!

4 chances??

She would have been sacked off the first time. Once the trust is gone, its gone. But 4 times?!?! Taking the piss out of you!

RE: Stress Relief

bashing the bishop

RE: The secret of succes on a site like CS is:

I totally agree with that, very wise words. Its putting it into practice though, very difficult. So many damaged people with so many issues and perverts on here who ruin it for guys like me who are only trying to make friends and chat. Women start thinking; is he like the jerk off who messaged me before and asked me what position i do it in??

very hard to gain trust on a date site- specially a free one.

RE: The secret of succes on a site like CS is:

cynicism is my middle name lol

RE: The secret of succes on a site like CS is:

having a massive income KER-CHING

RE: is being married really that important?

exactly, and that's what you ultimately hope for.

RE: is being married really that important?

I got married when i was young & spent 17 years with a complete manipulator & control freak. But, i married the wrong woman. And looking back on it i was wrong for her on many levels!

It happens.

Would i get married again, or would i put another person off marriage- absolutely not. My father met my mother in Venice in 1964 & it was love at first sight & they spent over 40 years with each other until he passed away. Its all about being in the right place at the right time in order to find the one. Very lucky indeed if you find a partner who is right for you on many levels. There are so many damaged people about nowadays with much baggage, they look for others to make them happy when they are clearly at war with themselves- or like many on date sites looking for a partner to fill a temporary void in their sad lives.


Get to know this person, dont rush anything, be kind and considerate, communicate and if it leads to marriage then cool. But when you do finally get wed i believe that its only the beginning because you have to work on staying married- never take your spouse for granted like my ex wife did with me. And love isnt about control either. Love is when you want the best for your partner even if it isnt the best thing for you.


As for arguing, well, my grandmother used to say: 'never let the sunset on bad feelings- clear the air and start anew.

RE: is being married really that important?

I got married when i was young & spent 17 years with a complete manipulator & control freak. But, i married the wrong woman. And looking back on it i was wrong for her on many levels!

It happens.

Would i get married again, or would i put another person off marriage- absolutely not. My father met my mother in Venice in 1964 & it was love at first sight & they spent over 40 years with each other until he passed away. Its all about being in the right place at the right time in order to find the one. Very lucky indeed if you find a partner who is right for you on many levels. There are so many damaged people about nowadays with much baggage, they look for others to make them happy when they are clearly at war with themselves- or like many on date sites looking for a partner to fill a temporary void in their sad lives.


Get to know this person, dont rush anything, be kind and considerate, communicate and if it leads to marriage then cool. But when you do finally get wed i believe that its only the beginning because you have to work on staying married- never take your spouse for granted like my ex wife did with me. And love isnt about control either. Love is when you want the best for your partner even if it isnt the best thing for you.


As for arguing, well, my grandmother used to say: 'never let the sunset on bad feelings- clear the air and start anew.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

Yes, good point. The Birmingham 6 were treated shabbily.

But having an Irish accent in this country at one time was enough to get you into trouble. Ireland has been wronged too many times by British governments, but thats another topic and i dont wana get into it.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

Your not kidding- you want to see it here!!

Its a joke. As fast as they are being processed to go into jail they are coming out the back door to reoffend. I know my Mothers sister is American & lives in LA, its a battleground. Wars everyday on them streets!

the world is nuts

RE: The Death Penalty !!

Its like a very sensitive issue.

Brings up stuff in me because i hate injustice, really bugs me. But you are right innocents have been wrongly accused and been put to death. I am not saying for one minute thats right, or they deserved it, or i dont care. Be it on the authorities head.

but what i am saying is: If you are 110% certain that the person is a murderer then they deserve all they get. Or repeat offenders who keep getting away with it need putting down like a dog.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

amen to that

RE: The Death Penalty !!

That is a valid argument & i hear it. But like i said before with the forensics, information, cctv coverage, witness statements, fair trial- well it should be-there is no error, not nowadays.

Or what do you suggest? rehabilitation? lets say............. yes, lets say rehabilitate a p*dophile.......right! its in their make up to do what they do, nobody will change them, never. But lets keep them in prison and drain the country of its recourses because we are humane and love the person but hate the crime- i hate that PC crap.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

I hear the evidence for the death penalty, and against it. We all have our opinions & i try to see it from both sides, however; You only have to see the way the UK is now to understand that there is no deterrent to keep these scumbags at bay. Prison is not a punishment, its where they go to learn new tricks, and they leave with a trade- some of them actually do.

they have a roof over their heads, and food. Some of our old age pensioners are suffering, have to visit food banks, and they are scared to put on the gas to heat their homes because of the high cost of fuel.

We will always have bad people in society, but; The border line cases are kept in check by a deterrent- ie; hanging and flogging!

Or just keep treating them with kid gloves and allow them to get away with it like some people on here suggest.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

No love. They have had the right of a fair trial in a court of law.

the victim had no rights, their life was snuffed out.

Being on death row gives them time to reflect on their crimes, make their peace with God- if they believe-then face the consequences.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

well, the authorities will have to live with that!!

the Justice system in America is better than ours. We just let them have an easy life in prison were they learn to become better criminals.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

no, and why would i? They choose to do it. They live with the consequences. Not my problem, would be if i was a hangman, but i aint.

RE: Who is your favorite Pope?

Papa Francis for many reasons, wonderful he is!!

RE: Who is your favorite Pope?

Thank God i dont live in your country then

RE: The Death Penalty !!

my sentiments exactly

RE: The Death Penalty !!

go ahead im not stopping you lol

RE: The Death Penalty !!

Nope im not, i am very wise to the world. Passionate man yes.

blinded by rage- nope. But, do your best to try and analyse me & convince me that i am wrong and you are right.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

maybe it isnt in your eyes, but why should these people be 'rehabilitated' and allowed to carry on with their lives? go on tell me i would love to know?

RE: The Death Penalty !!

well, god forbid, nothing ever happens to your nearest and dearest.

Then i think you would change your attitude. If you ever been a victim of violence or seen violence close up and personal, or its happened in your city to vulnerable members of society then you would soon change your tune.

but we'll agree to disagree shall we.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

re-read my post & come to your own conclusions.

do-gooders, and people who sit around and pontificate about this and that. AKA: The PC brigade. They burn my cap out those types of people- spineless politicians who live in the world of luxury and tell people how they should behave.

RE: The Death Penalty !!

exactly!

They harp on about their human rights...what about the human rights of the victim, and victims families?? you tell me?!?!

RE: The Death Penalty !!

You dont agree with the death penalty until, God forbid, anything happened to your loved ones. Then, its a whole different ballgame. Some individuals out there are Evil plain & simple. The world is full of do-gooders & politically correct stay at home types who should be shot basically.

RE: what fascinates you..what do you collect?

stamps & train numbers.

RE: guilt

Was born feeling guilty, i am a catholic. Part and parcel of it. lol