Things happen in our lives that we don't like. It's our perception of them that makes our experiences, ( whether we consider them, good or bad) what they are. My own personal over 29 year old perspective is, to be grateful.... You can handle anything, it all depends on your approach. I gave up on having life the way I wanted it... years ago. Do what you gotta do, whether you like it or not. Most of all do it with love in your heart, and a smile on that face. =) It gets better, then..... there's more crap. Your perception of it is entirely up to you.
RE: can a religious person say for sure, that you will get entirnal punishment when you die..?
A belief is a condition subject to what one human being chooses to believe, or many....What difference does it make what you believe?
I won't put opinion into it.
Your beliefs, or what you think of me.. are not any of my business.
Be Well. Happy Thanksgiving. =)