indeed. dont ever take antidepressents, much worse are the leading cause of suicide. good, strong psychotherapy and courage to face up to one self is called for. if you really want to take antidepressents, rather go for the green stuff, not good for you but less side effects.
dont confuse love with attachment. and dont look for love. Be Love unconditionally. Then, when when free from the illusion of finding love elsewhere and attaching to you illusion, Poof! no more hurt!
unconditional love implies that you would like the greatest joy for another, regardless whether it be with you or a third (fourth) party. And, vice versa.
Marriage is an unreasonable and often unsustainable committment. We all change, life changes. Staying with somebody to be faithful to them while being unfaithful to your own inner self/feelings is unfair and demeaning both to you and to your partner who also deserves to be with someone who here and now choses to be with them. It also sets a bad example to children.
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RE: Are anti-depressants killing the libido
indeed. dont ever take antidepressents, much worse are the leading cause of suicide. good, strong psychotherapy and courage to face up to one self is called for. if you really want to take antidepressents, rather go for the green stuff, not good for you but less side effects.