I want to clarify.. she doiidn't say I could be on a dating site.. but her seeing my activity id the same thing I told her it did to me. I hope she realizes she can't build a monogomous relationship still in the dating candy stores. I really hoped she would see that it doesn't work and aask me to get off the site and she would too. But I guess she wants her cake and candy too. WHAT A DAY
I just went through that. She insisited she could be on dating sites while we dated but if I did she would leave me.. LOL She did today.. I didn't expect it but that was I created that topic in the forum of pros and cons of dating sites.
That Con just happened.. Both people have to understand when they are getting close they should devote their energies on each other.. not a CANDY STORE..
I hope people learn from this. Good luck everyone, jeff
Then Bye.. I hope you see what it is like for someone to be checking mails all the time when we were supposed to be getting close.. sorry it is a double standard.. am off this site.. I hope you see my point. jeff
See how it feels (The CON) when others that you are getting close to go on dating sites. I feel the same Witchy.. Now you feel as I did and hopefully you understand my point
The more I see and use these emoticons I feel we are developing a new language.. I can say more with one than a whole sentence(a picture is worth a thousand words). PRO of dating sites .. A new language is born.. Emoticana Let's also not forget LTR and the new acronyms
The fact you met the gentleman (I hope he is one ) on the other site is another con in a way . you really need to join multiple sites (hey connecting singles.. urs is one of the best) to get access to more people in any one area. Hope it goes well with your date and you find the love of your life
Lol am not talking about judging.. about honesty.. The person looks like their pic and acts as normal as they seem on the phone. Lol i am so far away from perfect myself (so far)
I met someone that inflated by 300 percent.. must have been Earth's atmospheric pressure was 1/3 of her planet's. I did meet great people from Earth too.. That PRO still remains
The trust is is another big hursdle.. Are the people who they say they are? Lol I had me dates from hell where the person that showed up hid their spaceship
Anybody please feel free to post your experiences of what has been good or bad since you have been on dating sites. So far for me : Pro: Great way to meet people!
Con: After you meet people there is always the easy access to the "candy store" of people on a dating site.. It makes it easier for someone to start looking elsewhere when they think the grass is greener even if the relationship is doing fairly well.
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RE: Controlling personalities
I want to clarify.. she doiidn't say I could be on a dating site.. but her seeing my activity id the same thing I told her it did to me. I hope she realizes she can't build a monogomous relationship still in the dating candy stores. I really hoped she would see that it doesn't work and aask me to get off the site and she would too. But I guess she wants her cake and candy too.WHAT A DAY