Controlling personalities ( Archived) (44)

May 31, 2007 5:43 PM CST Controlling personalities
flajola
flajolaflajolaWest Palm Beach, Florida USA1 Threads 29 Posts
Have anybody ever have been with a person with a strong, controlling personality and learned how to trust people again?
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May 31, 2007 5:46 PM CST Controlling personalities
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Yep I argue with him everyday, He keeps getting me back when I'm on my own.

Damn voices in my head. frustrated frustrated







Sorry I'm gone now.
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May 31, 2007 5:47 PM CST Controlling personalities
yourharbor
yourharboryourharborSouth River, New Jersey USA1 Threads 24 Posts
I just went through that. She insisited she could be on dating sites while we dated but if I did she would leave me.. LOL
She did today.. I didn't expect it but that was I created that topic in the forum of pros and cons of dating sites.doh
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May 31, 2007 5:48 PM CST Controlling personalities
tinymac
tinymactinymachilversum, North Holland Netherlands25 Threads 1,741 Posts
Hi
actually - I have

but only for a short time as I hate people telling me what to do!!

- even when I knowthey r right :)
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May 31, 2007 5:49 PM CST Controlling personalities
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
thumbs up
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May 31, 2007 5:50 PM CST Controlling personalities
Bikeswim
BikeswimBikeswimLos Angeles, California USA8 Posts
I don't wish to discuss it. This subject is closed.

And furthermore... don't wear that shirt again.

(Kidding!)
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May 31, 2007 5:50 PM CST Controlling personalities
yourharbor
yourharboryourharborSouth River, New Jersey USA1 Threads 24 Posts
I want to clarify.. she doiidn't say I could be on a dating site.. but her seeing my activity id the same thing I told her it did to me. I hope she realizes she can't build a monogomous relationship still in the dating candy stores. I really hoped she would see that it doesn't work and aask me to get off the site and she would too. But I guess she wants her cake and candy too.
WHAT A DAYpeace
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May 31, 2007 5:50 PM CST Controlling personalities
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
I don't mind people telling me what to do, as long as they don't mind being ignored.

wink laugh
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May 31, 2007 5:56 PM CST Controlling personalities
Frenchgirl2know
Frenchgirl2knowFrenchgirl2knowChicago, USA29 Threads 2,548 Posts
thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing
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May 31, 2007 5:56 PM CST Controlling personalities
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
well i totally agree with you if she didn't want you on it then she shouldn't have been on it either, thats just not an open and honest relationship. sorry to hear that you're having problems maybe she'll figure it out and wanna work it, it you want to of coursecomfort back to the topic

I will do anything i am asked, but if i am ordered then thats wher e the problems begin. a person that is controlling isn't trusting in the first place if they need to have the control it means that they feel they can only trust themselves, trusitng in that case is an aquired taste. i would suggest counsiling
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May 31, 2007 6:21 PM CST Controlling personalities
flajola
flajolaflajolaWest Palm Beach, Florida USA1 Threads 29 Posts
Thanks. Did you mean counseling?
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May 31, 2007 6:25 PM CST Controlling personalities
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
yes i did lol sorry my typing isn't the best i swear i can spell,
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May 31, 2007 6:25 PM CST Controlling personalities
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
Yes, I have. We clashed. There are not too many people I trust completely, in the first place.
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May 31, 2007 6:28 PM CST Controlling personalities
flajola
flajolaflajolaWest Palm Beach, Florida USA1 Threads 29 Posts
Sorry, didn't mean it. peace
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May 31, 2007 6:30 PM CST Controlling personalities
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
no offense takenhug
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May 31, 2007 6:34 PM CST Controlling personalities
flajola
flajolaflajolaWest Palm Beach, Florida USA1 Threads 29 Posts
I guess I just have to take another step in life. Thanks guys for all you replies.
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May 31, 2007 6:46 PM CST Controlling personalities
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Sorry! I thought this was about how to control your split personalities.

Don't tell them that.
Oh! shut up.
But they might figure it out.
If they do I'll tell them we are doing a social experiment.
They are not going to fall for that.
Will you guys shut up!

Well!....
Yeah!....right!

Jerks! I'm glad they left.




grin
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May 31, 2007 6:47 PM CST Controlling personalities
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing we're finally alone then?comfort
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May 31, 2007 6:48 PM CST Controlling personalities
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Yup!dancing
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May 31, 2007 6:59 PM CST Controlling personalities
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
wooooooohooooooooo
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