but see, you just don't know what could happen. A stranger at the door whose car broke down, or whatever weirdos say to get kids to trust them EVEN though they have been taught not to. It happens every day. There's no way on earth I'd allow her to stay alone in the house overnight. Just too many variables. It's good that she is mature, but think about it Dana, she might just boot the computer up on Saturday night and read my posts... you wouldn't want that now, would you????
It's wonderful that she is mature, but really honey, for this world, she is just a pup. Good luck whatever you decide.
Age matters to a certain extent, but maturity is the most vital thing. For example, you could have a 15 year old that was extremely immature, and a 13 year old that was mature in every way. Day time and overnight are 2 different things as well. I wouldn't leave a child overnight to fend for themselves until they were way old enough. So many different things could happen, things that they hadn't come across before. Plus, it's not worth leaving your child home alone all night, you wouldn't get any peace in your head, worrying too much...
What kind of relationship did you have for 6 years of seeing each other every day?
How come it went no further, usually people make commitments etc after a certain period of time.
6 years is a long time to just be seeing each other.
I don't get it, it's a puzzle
Actions do speak louder than words, even talking to him wouldn't do much good without actions backing it. Judging from what you've said of his actions, it looks like he's moved on. You could talk to him about it, and maybe try to understand, but it's pretty clear.
RE: Say Something To Someone No Need To Name Names.. Please Be Nice..
you already have a question in there that you might wanna take out....