I still talk to ones that don't have photos but if they try to give me their email in the first message then they are scammers and use that as an execuse to get you to message them and they promise to send you a picture. I only give ones I have known a long time here my email.
Also many I have met that had pic's up , didn't look much like their pictures.
RE: say something nice,be nice
Oh and Shelly You would never had anything to do with ones like that jerk so You are way out of his league, so his opinions and mouth don't matter.