CinVida Forum Posts (98)

RE: If you had chance to save the world ..what would the beginning point be for you ?

Take speach and written word/symbol away from mankind for 1 year then create the tower of babel and unite everyone in te world through unity of one another.... love... life....live....cherish....dont take anything for granted because they will have lost everything and realized how important the simpelest of lifes necessities is... communication

RE: Is it really true what they say about Canadians VS Americans?

ill admit it... when living in costa rica/panama and people would jump into conversations about americans sometimes i'd say well im part canadian ( i am) and leave out the rest of what i am...

that got me through many conversations that turned very ugly

RE: How to Start a Conversation With a Stranger

err i might be a lil delerious you said when you date a woman not contact her... well hmm

to start with the question game, then the mirror game, then onto the dive deep game, the eye game, the real game, the i surrender and here are my flaws game, you name it game...

unless ya find a real woman and can just lay it down like it is and she accepts ya... which if she doesnt then so be it... it wasnt meant to be im not here to play the games... least not the annoying ones with negative effects and conditations...

but i always try and keep a conversation or topic going as far as she is willing to take it by incorperating something in what she last said to me back to her... its like peeling the layers off a onion... well how about an orange... break that first layer get the walls/insecurities put aside... then dive into one piece at a time some will have seeds others wont, the ones that have seeds replant them (so choose a topic dive into it, bounce back and forth then find another, keep it going)... by the time all the pieces are done and a few seeds are replanted then grow the courage to touch.... be it dancing, on the arm in conversation, fixing a piece of hair, what ever it be...

then take it from there

RE: How to Start a Conversation With a Stranger

Ditto! listen to the man he's a chick magnet


I try and find something out about them by reading their posts and profiles and then catch something and utilize it in an apropriate way... for example HeidiTexas had something about chemistry so i made a word play off of that.

her profile "About me: I'm a total extrovert that loves to have fun. I beleive in chemistry so if its there...we'll know it! Let me know whats on your mind! "

And i sent a flower "How about a lil stir & mixing see if we cause a reaction? :)"

Now i might not be her type or vice versa (just saying, but i hope for the best) but cause i put an effort in she gave me a response...

And well it took off from there, so well maybe this will give ya some ideas.

RE: What makes you smile?

I smile when someone inspires me knowingly and unknowingly... when i am able to help someone without thinking or wanting anything in return... when someone cares enough to sacrafice and/or compromise... I smile when someone knows me so well they can finish my sentences... i smile when someone pays me a compliment... i smile everyday for the thought and being of freedom... i smile time i turn to addiction and say just 24 more hours and it's another day without using and abusing whatever that addiction was/is...

I smile at respect, when I give it and recieve it.

I smile at my self for admiting im wrong when i previously swore i was right because thats the just one of the few steps in humbeling my self

RE: what are the ten most dealy sins of life that most people fall for ? and are these sins worthwhile ?

I would say I do but many don't...

you hear the words "I am in love with you" then expect a wedding ring and a visit to the alter...

You hear mi amor, love ya, ah thats so sweet i love you when you do that or any deritivite different then the above.... even I love you then well don't be so sure, make sure to clarify and communicate!

RE: what do single guys with no kids really think of girls with kids??

I'm drawn to kids and the women with them... what else to say...

RE: I would like to replace with .......... just for one day .

I'm quite content in my own skin even though others might hate me/it hah :) no ones perfect thats for darn sure...

But lets see... if i had to choose i'd say G and i'd be locked in my dressing room doing things i couldnt discuss here... Then i'd jump over to B for another round... and when it's all said and done maybe a lil C so i could see the other side of the Bradgelina situation... :)

And well if i was not such a supporter of my country and i had the views of many others i could see how some might say D so they could jump into a pool of hot tar....

E n F them flunkies still around ? pfft...

RE: Where you come from?

I can relate to "I'm a heinz 57 , rolling on the floor laughing But mostly Irish, English, Swedish, Dutch, Scottish !!applause"

Mostly Scottish (50% or more) a little English or British (10-15%) and Canadian (10-15%) been told there is some Irish and Swedish but whose to say! now that i think about it aren't the majority of us all British to some extent (north american folk)

Born in Seattle, Washington - Raised in South Florida - Lived in Alaska, Oregon, South Carolina, Canada (briefly) but stayed in Costa Rica and Panama for years.... Traveled most of the Americas and looking to venture off this god for saken island... err okay okay it isn't that bad heh! I love my country and the people in it!, just not all of them by any means!

RE: Top three hottest ...

Ah we can be a rough crowd man, sorry for pouncing on ya.. I think it is a little obvious english isnt your first language! Hope ya aren't too sick wouldn't wish that upon anyone. Best of luck and good day to ya

RE: Top three hottest ...

If ya got the ball and brains seriously take to that long list of women i wrote about. In my eyes they are all very beautiful and they seriously have personality... and are open to meet new friends... hell i'll be brash enough to speak on their behalf and say tell um i sent ya i'm sure it'll get ya at least a response :) Dont be shy these women aren't needless to say!

RE: What Is your thought on inter-racial relationships?

Argh i cant even type right...

shh there is no need for talkin lets just start knockin... if ya know what i mean :)

RE: What Is your thought on inter-racial relationships?

Shh ther eis no need for talk.... lets just start knockin!

im in trouble! my minds gone into the gutter!

RE: What Is your thought on inter-racial relationships?

If your foreign your not borin thats for sure! So come a knocking and lets go walkin!

RE: Top three hottest ...

uh above comment was to this

RE: Top three hottest ...

I am right there with ya man... so break the rules we aren't governed by any dictatorship we are governed by the people and the people call for it!!!!!! let loose... or maybe i had too much coffee hah! hardly drink this stuff it gets to me

RE: Top three hottest ...

And fortunately i am so not here for you... you don't got the time to read what someone has to say then i don't take it your gonna be able to keep anyone entertained with anytihng other then them boxers and sixpack.... proll yof beer to keep the conversation flowing cause nothing is gonna be talking other then a few twitched out muscles my man...

lol hope i didnt come off rude, but shove it bud... you got a personality show it... got a bod show it... congrats on that wish i were in your shoes :)

RE: Top three hottest ...

hiphopHONEY - ooks like i ought to pick my draw up off the floor

meant to say... looks like i ought to pick my jaw up off the floor cause her inteligence, personality, writing, and beauty has the whole package

RE: tessie gets her own thread cause she is so lóreal..lol

With a smile like that, a personality to match and that awesome haircut who can't just melt down and smile when ever ya think of tessie... shes the lochness princess... to the lochness toad... err monster :)

Wish for all the best tess you rock girl!

RE: What are 3 things you want to have with you on a desolate island ?

macgyver kit (Flares, compass, mirror, tooth pick, paperclip, matches, yadda yadda)
a woman... anyone will do i gotta spread my seed and have offspring ya know... tis my purpose, yar! not so sure how long' ill be stuck! and this last name isnt a dying anytime soon!
A gun with a bullett... i never said i'd want to stick around too long or just maybe its her that doesnt need to stick around! Argh! matey!

RE: Douuble standards

for some odd reason i think this is a loaded and personal question, hmm... Btw hi bud...nice to see your in my area :)

RE: come n get me boys lol

lets cause you got me thinking i ought to buy you a and see where it might lead too... hopefully a lil turned to and my mind just wont stop racing... you've got me going

lol thanks for the tease need a little out of reality check at times :)

RE: Does this site work?

It takes some getting use to i didnt have any luck the first week... women i flowered or emailed ignored or barely wrote back... those same women i talk to on a day to day basis now...

It took me rewriting my profile, no longer thinking im looking to find someone to date.... but someone to share a good time witth and see where it goes...

Plus I find that flowers and emails need to have a sense of hmm dont know the word... but if your blunt to the point, honest and have good intentions then you tend to get a response... even if she doesn't care for your appearance or personality they are at least friendly for the most part... and yes the forums are key... Got to show personality not just be another cookie cutter mold / advertisement

jeff

RE: Is age important in a relationship?

I'm a hypocrite i try and avoid anyone younger than me yet i enjoy chasing women about 10 years older than me...

/me hangs head low.... sowwy i can't help it...

The young ones don't know what they want in life, in bed, in a relationship... they play too many games and aren't serious enough or at the point in their life where htere mentality coincides with mine (most of the time)

Yes i find my self talking to a few younger gals that kinda rock too so what do i know...

RE: Who do you like the best...Mexican girls or Asian girls?

I have been with an Asian woman and she threw my stuff out off her balcony for a few reasons some mine mostly hers....

So i'm scarred a little i'd try mexican this go around... plus i've got a thing for a latin appearence...

But it's all personality too....

RE: HOW MANY OF YOU

Never been so lucky, heh just kidding thats kinda freaky... surely creepy from the male/female standpoint but even I don't think i would just jump into a phone call even with a drop dead gorgeous chick... but well if her profile matched then heck yeah i would but i dont need no psychos or stalkers... i already came across some underage girls and that was a big big big big no no no no... can't be having that as is... and come to think of it she actually gave me her phone number after a few correspondence... eek /me never called or continuted talking after finding out she was 17....

RE: Your favourite movie actor........

Leonardo Di Caprio for diverse roles and real life impact

RE: HUNKATHON 2,IS ALMOST HERE

Just following the good people :)

RE: HUNKATHON 2,IS ALMOST HERE

Understand that brother, she caught my eye with her personality, talent and beauty the day I joined this site... only took her two weeks to come around and really share a few conversations with me, but im hooked :)

She's all yours for now but ya better keep a good eye on her, heh

A truly heart felt conversation and moment of sharing with one another is priceless glad to see the two of you so happy, its a great feeling when you see others are happy, it raises your own spirits ya know :) gives us hope! lol

RE: HUNKATHON 2,IS ALMOST HERE

Oh really? Well do share i'm sure we can use some pointers heh!