In 1994, I left my ex husband (then he was just my boyfriend) in the island and I came to New Jersey. I did that oversea relationship for 16 months. That was so difficult for both of us.
We knew each from childhood. I just can't imagine having a brand new relationship with someone that I never laid see on over the phone.
Yes, I can use my three wrrks vacation that I have to go see him then back to skype or phone. I will never really get to know him.
I always wonder that because a brand nee relationship required time spend together like going out, movie, dinner, beach etc. How can you do that over the phone?
My problem with some of the guys that I come across, they don't get straight to the point. They assume that you know what they are feeling. By the time they have the courage to say what they want to say. It is too late.
RE: What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
Someone that I am attracted too deeply, physically and I have to be able to get along with him.