Ive realized that I'm looking back at my last relationship and thinking "maybe this is a good thing that its over because it shows me what I definitely DONT want in a man" but I feel guilty for thinking that way at the same time Does anyone else here look at a past relationship in the same way?
a little jealousy is fine.. I know I would prefer it over a man who could care less about other people being interested in me, expressing interest in me, etc. etc. but when it starts to get out of control I can't be in a relationship like that
I agree that some women DO say that but I truly want to be with a good guy, someone who treats me with respect All of the men Ive dated in the past have been good to me, very considerate, respectful guys but guys like that are so hard to find it seems
The reason I ask is because Ive been told by a few people now that appearance doesnt matter at all to them just wanted to hear a few different opinions on the topic.
hmm.. I suppose it could be looked at that way but for the most part all my friends say its flattering whether they are interested or not and I agree, it can brighten someones day.. if it happened to me I wouldnt assume he would have to be a player in order to just come up to me like that, I would just think he has a lot of confidence, which is really attractive.
even if a woman isint interested in you just know that by approaching her/complimenting her/ etc. etc. youve flattered her, made her day so dont think of it as rejection.. think of it as: youve made someone else's day :)
Thanks for all the kind words :) its interesting to hear all the different opinions I hear all these stories from beautiful women - they are approached all the time doesnt make me feel too good knowing ive never been especially when its really hard to meet people these days
Who here gets approached often? I never get approached by men.. its difficult because people can't see your personality from just walking by you.. they can only see the appearance Anyone else have any thoughts on this?
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What is your nickname?
I secretly love being called "cupcake" LOL