loyalaboveall Forum Posts (4)

RE: Real men

Definitely a real man and definitely seeking a REAL, sincere, long term relationship with a REAL woman. It isn't just the men that a difficult to pin down, the women are just as bad.

I do believe this is not just on this site but on most all single sites you will find more players, liars, fakes and fake profiles than you will find sincere people.

Personally, I take it all with a grain of salt after being on these sites for so many years. I have found a few sincere women but we just did not match up and I will not settle just to be with someone again. I did that last time and it cost me dearly. Not going to happen again and it may be why I am more skeptical that this will work to create a true, lasting relationship.

Good luck to all but be very careful and never, ever send anyone money!

RE: Currently pregnant and alone..??

Find something of his YES but wait until your baby is born to get the DNA test. Otherwise, if you do as secretagent09 suggests, you will have to do the test twice. Once to identify his DNA and a 2nd time to get the DNA for the baby and then they will have to be compared to determine parenthood. If you wait until the baby is born, they will do a straight across comparison and only need test once.

RE: "WHICH IS WORSE IN HAVING A BROKEN HEART?"

Cheating is one of the 3 deal breakers for me along with lying and stealing. But among the selections in the initial question, for me the worst would be having someone run away with my children. I love my children and couldn't imagine someone taking them away where I could not see them. This has happened to me and it is a greater loss than anything I could ever possibly experience again.

RE: Have you ever seen a man cry?

Yes, I have seen men cry. I have seen it firsthand under combat situations in Vietnam at the loss of a fellow Marines. I personally have cried in many different circumstances. At the loss of close friends; at the loss of my little sister 2 weeks after graduating high school; at the loss of my grandmothers (both), and especially at the loss of my mother!

Also I shed tears during happy times, when I was in the delivery room for both my daughters and even more so when my son was born. What greater gift do we receive than our children and to be able to be there at that moment, to receive them in our hands and hold them close to your heart as they breathe their first few breaths of new life. Noting is greater and noting can bring a man more happiness.

I have to admit I have watched a few movies that moved me to shed a tear or two or three. Any man that has no emotion to move him to shed a tear is not a real man at all. If you still have your mother or father, ask them.

It is not a shame for a man to cry. We are just as human as the next person and it is a natural human function. I assure you I am ALL man and have fought and almost died fighting for my country. I will stand up against any man out there. Shedding tears is not at all unmanly. If you think it is, you simply don't know what you are talking about!