Your poem moved me so much! It was so nice seeing and feeling that soft side of you. It is like magic how the Universe works for us, it knows when we are ready to move on and then puts us on the right track to find the right person, I feel yours is coming soon.
My Mother is only 15 years older than me, and when I was in High School I walked in on her and my Boy Friend! It took me 10 years before I talked to her again!!! So I know what you mean.
RE: What do you do or say, when you COME...?