yes i kicked him to the curb...he had over a month to fulfill a promise that was supposed to happen the next day...and when my son would ask he would tell him tomorrow everytime...and no he not once kept any of his promises to my son which is why he is the s.o.b. and why i kicked him out...no one is gonna play wit my kids hearts like that...but i do wanna thank everyone who has shown sincere concern and not worried bout how i worded things...yes i am extremely lucky that i did get out sooner than later cause i just found out that he was living a double life and had a wife in louisianna...so i thank god that he got me out of that situation...but my son is stronger now for this he now knows why i tell him to never make a promise unless u know u can keep it...he knows what matters most is that i love him and will never and have never broken a promise to him...oh and for those of u who think i need to look at it from the other side here is my answer to that...if i was to ever hurt someone the way me n mine just got hurt i would still see it the same way...but i dont have to worry bout that cause i tend to live my life and treat my man exactly the way i would want to be treated...
thanx for the comment blue eyed...my son is extremely soft hearted and when he loves he loves with all his heart...i dont know why he wants to take the blame and me and him have been talking and praying all day...i told him that what this guy did has nothing to do with him...this has broken me from wanting another relationship...ive been divorced from his dad for 7yrs...was with this guy over a year before he met my kids...and he is the first and last that will be around them...every time he told my son he would do something i told him not to be making promises to my kids but it was to late cause it was already said and son already heard...i have remained strong for my son...and thats why i decided to post this hoping that it will help me stay strong...cause its up to me to pull him through...
i let my son get involved cause we were about to move in together...and i wasnt gonna move in without my son getting to know him first and knowing what was gonna happen...so no i am not at fault and i did get after him every time he made a promise thats why i got rid of him cause he did it too many times...and i wanted to prevent this from happening...when i asked my son where he got this from he told me it was all in his head...
why dont guys watch what they say and promise...i just got out of a longterm relationship...we were planning on moving in together so naturally i started getting my kids involved...well he started making promises to my son age 9....so when he took off promises broken my son thinks its his fault and that he doesnt like him...and today he had a meltdown and was talking bout killing hisself...seriously guys u need to be careful when u deal with kids...my heart is broken cause my baby was hurt badly...
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why are guys heartless
yes i kicked him to the curb...he had over a month to fulfill a promise that was supposed to happen the next day...and when my son would ask he would tell him tomorrow everytime...and no he not once kept any of his promises to my son which is why he is the s.o.b. and why i kicked him out...no one is gonna play wit my kids hearts like that...but i do wanna thank everyone who has shown sincere concern and not worried bout how i worded things...yes i am extremely lucky that i did get out sooner than later cause i just found out that he was living a double life and had a wife in louisianna...so i thank god that he got me out of that situation...but my son is stronger now for this he now knows why i tell him to never make a promise unless u know u can keep it...he knows what matters most is that i love him and will never and have never broken a promise to him...oh and for those of u who think i need to look at it from the other side here is my answer to that...if i was to ever hurt someone the way me n mine just got hurt i would still see it the same way...but i dont have to worry bout that cause i tend to live my life and treat my man exactly the way i would want to be treated...