What's up with this "Who's Viewed Me" feature of CS? I've got a whole sh## load of people who have checked me out, but nobody ever sends me anything, not even a "Hi". They've seen my picture, maybe even read my profile, then said "NOPE"(click) "NEXT". It's like getting a bunch of "Mini Rejections" all at one time. Ok...so I'm not the man of your dreams...Does that mean we can't still talk? I'd like to say hello to these people, we must have SOMETHING in common if they're checking me out... But I'm afraid it might be viewed like a fish jumping at empty hooks. If the only reason for being here is to find that one true love, that..."PERFECT MATCH", then I'm in the wrong place. While I would love to meet my soul mate here, I also would like making a few good friends along the way. Does anyone have any thoughts on this subject?
When I was a young lad my uncle saw me playing with my BB-gun, I was shooting cans on a chain-link fence. My uncle came over and asked me "What will happen if you miss?" I didn't understand the question. "Where will the BB go if it doesn't hit the can?" I looked beyond the fence, there were homes... with windows...and people.
This lesson taught me to consider the consequences of all my actions.
When I was in my 20's I dated a woman of 43. What killed the relationship? She was sooo insecure, she kept thinking I was going to leave her for a younger woman,she would always ask what I saw in HER. Truthfully, I wondered what she saw in ME. To protect herself from heartache,she broke it off... I still miss her. I'm giving advice, just experence.
Hey, names Jack,(nick name) I'm RICH, (he's lying!) good looking, (eh) in fact,some people say I look like a cross between Sean Connery and Sam Elliot.(Freddy Cruger/the Elephant Man) STOP IT!! (stop what?)YOU KNOW WHAT!(calm down, i was just trying to help.) You call THAT helping? (sure...it shows people you're complex.) But I'm NOT complex.(yes you are.)NO...I'M NOT.(now your just being difficult.) I'M being difficult?(i'm glad you admit it, it's the first step to recovery.) AAAHHH!!!
For the same reason older men like younger women,part biology,part psycology. Younger men want to feel older,be taken seriously while older men want just the opposite. dat's wut I tink.
zooguy Forum Posts (165)
I was going to say that.
(yea...TOO kind.)
Mini Rejections...
I have no problem with rejection really, but I like your idea.