Mini Rejections... ( Archived) (58)

What's up with this "Who's Viewed Me" feature of CS? I've got a whole sh## load of people who have checked me out, but nobody ever sends me anything, not even a "Hi". They've seen my picture, maybe even read my profile, then said "NOPE"(click) "NEXT". It's like getting a bunch of "Mini Rejections" all at one time. Ok...so I'm not the man of your dreams...Does that mean we can't still talk? I'd like to say hello to these people, we must have SOMETHING in common if they're checking me out... But I'm afraid it might be viewed like a fish jumping at empty hooks. If the only reason for being here is to find that one true love, that..."PERFECT MATCH", then I'm in the wrong place. While I would love to meet my soul mate here, I also would like making a few good friends along the way.
Does anyone have any thoughts on this subject?

I never check that option ...figure I dont need the depression....

Therapy maybe?? TO deal with rejection..



Go to their profiles, rate pictures, give them all a rating of 1... Revenge is so sweet..

I dunno. I kind of like it. I mean, at least someone, somewhere, out there even bothered to look...

I have no problem with rejection really, but I like your idea.

Ditto.

First, rather than being upset, why not consider all this attention flattering? I feel happy if I get one or two new people checking me out every few days. Second, why not write some of them? Despite illusions to the contrary, most women prefer to be pursued, imo. Third, you may not have been here long enough to see what might develop from these viewings (some of them may decide to contact you later). Fourth, they might have contacted for you for perfectly reasonable and possibly whimsical/tangential reasons that don't truly reflect on your attractiveness.

Sometimes I write to 'lookers' who don't email or send a flower - like u said, depends on their profile.

I think looking at your profile and not saying 'hello' is like passing someone on a sidewalk and turning to watch them go by.

Its a compliment, but doesn't mean much.

i know exactly what you mean.. so many people look at my page but i dont get very many messages :( I shouldnt even look at that feature it just makes me sad