I agree with Alabamabebe, emotional cheating is worse. Bringing in feelings and emotions will only bring pain to everyone involved. Don't get me wrong, all cheating is bad, but I believe emotional takes the cheating to a whole new level and you are out of the fantasy stage.
It seems to me you feel like you have to be with someone to be happy, that is NOT GOOD!! Try working on your independence, make yourself happy, move out and try living alone, love YOURSELF. There is no rule that you have to have a man at all times. As for number 3, he's taken, leave him alone, if for some reason if it is meant to be then it will happen.
Okay, I have really been putting this one off. Now that I have gotten to know a lot of you though it's a little easier to ask... My HUGE problem is this, I will start talking to someone and have a pretty decent connection with some but I cannot get past the emailing stage. I have never met anyone I've talked to online. I am just terrified!! It's getting rather lonely!! I don't know what I am afraid of. I wouldn't say that I have a horribly low self confidence issue or anything. It's just a huge fear that I didn't present myself right and someone will have different expectations of me. (does that make sense?). I am just afraid of that inital first meeting I guess... Sounds silly but I cannot get past it!! Anyone else feel this way? How do you get past this? I will never meet anyone if I don't suck it up and meet them!!
I need to get away!! Have some money saved up for a vacation. Just wondering where everyones favorite vacation spot is, I need some ideas! In or away from the U.S. Thanks!!
I've only dated younger men and haven't had much luck. If they are still trying to figure out "who they are" it's just a disaster waiting to happen. I'm not against ever dating a younger man again but I am definately looking at the older men a lot more these days.
Hey everyone, just wanted to say hello! I have been at the site for a while but new to the forums. Not sure what the heck I am looking for but hoping to find it here!!
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RE: Fantasies
I agree with Alabamabebe, emotional cheating is worse. Bringing in feelings and emotions will only bring pain to everyone involved. Don't get me wrong, all cheating is bad, but I believe emotional takes the cheating to a whole new level and you are out of the fantasy stage.