Well for me its a lot of things. Looks matter because I am a man, but I need to connect, so personality is important. Lots of things play little parts, not simple enough to narrow down to one thing
Well you never relax; this isn’t just to win their heart. If you stop once you have them, what message does that send? Ok I’ve won you now I don’t have to let you know how I feel anymore. Or do you mean when you realize they aren’t willing to put the effort in. I think everyone slacks off from time to time, remember you still have to live, work and sleep. One sided is trash and when you realize it, I think its better to just move on in life. I read somewhere a long time ago that every soul has a perfect match, but each new life they are not necessarily put together, so it is our job to find that other soul in each new life. I also think there are the souls that you have poor experiences with in life and I think they help us grow to be better ourselves.
Well I think saying “I love you” is great and trust me I like everyone else in the world loves to hear it, but I do my best to show it. I personally like to touch and cuddle. I don’t bring flowers very often but when I do I think a little embarrassment is good so I like to show up in the middle of the store when she’s shopping or at her work and hand deliver them, this also says I care and I don’t care who knows. I have had friends that say they just can’t afford to do romantic things, but I don’t think it has to be extravagant just personal. A walk down the beach holding hands talking and looking for shells, or watching the sun rise or set depending on where you live. It’s about spending time with that person, and being willing to do a little extra if that’s whats needed.
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