show how big your heart is...if that person chooses to be out on the town (you are not invited- weather you choose to go or not is irrelevant)...then that person is not bonded with your heart...then it is time to release them...they will walk away today or tomorrow...(always looking for something "better") Women can cheat as men sem to be accused of...it cannot stop your heart from loving...just being more cautious...not callous
I have to agree with you Fishing girl... I find that this chasing is something that I too am too old for...want to just enjoy one person and see where/if it goes anywhere... To see...what lies ahead.. this online chase protects people from being real...and feeling... gains...losses...nerves...getting ready for a first/second date...etc
I have been married twice and divorced the same amount (funny how that works...) when I tell people of that...I feel as though I have failed in those relationships...I did have a part in the failures...I recognize that and have grown from that and I believe that if two people are meant to be together...they always will be...otherwise they are a learning experience for life... I will get married again to the right person...
Hey, Have you found the possibility of true love...(s)he all going to town with the way they care and such...then as it becomes serious (on both sides)...(s)he runs the other way...cannot commit or just afraid of a forever thing? Leads me to wonder, how many on here are just hiding behind the "looking for love" banner , while wanting reassurance that they are desirable still What do you think?
I believe that I have found my soulmate...through this discussion.....I will let you know as time goes on...yet everything deepens the bond...everything..
I thought that I had found my soulmate...yet her heart was not as dedicated or committed as mine (her words were however)...so I got a glimpse as to the realitry of a soulmate...to the point of one beginning a sentence and the other knowing enough that it need not be finished...when one is hurting...the other cannot sleep (even in a different residence) when there is joy...it is shared with a multiplier involved yes, I was given a soulmate...just to see They are real...
yes, I think it does too...In movies...God laughs as He listens to the star say...but I had plans for my life.... We are but passengers of a train with a steering wheel...the switches are already set...the destination has been determined as has the arrival time...along with the passengers you arrive with, we just believe we can steer it
RE: How you can trust and open your heart again ?
show how big your heart is...if that person chooses to be out on the town (you are not invited- weather you choose to go or not is irrelevant)...then that person is not bonded with your heart...then it is time to release them...they will walk away today or tomorrow...(always looking for something "better")Women can cheat as men sem to be accused of...it cannot stop your heart from loving...just being more cautious...not callous