It might appear that way to you (yet you are a consistent blogger). It might be because most forum posters are not aware that you are possibly an extremely neurotic woman waiting for a man to blame.
Usually it is written in their profile, it might not have occurred to you to read them. In that case, they might be looking for a fella with a small particle of brain in his skull.
RE: When was the last time you went to the cinema?
1984.