Mayo_Midfielder Forum Posts (45)

Is anyone awake at all?

Yeah... I love cats. I just agreed to take 2 little kittens... need to think of names tho. Thinking :

Ming the Merciless and Attila the Hun (Ming and Tilly) ..?

Any other suggestions anyone?

Is anyone awake at all?

Ah.. there must be something in the air, Looplinks, cos I feel the same. I can hear the birds singing already. Can't they just chill out for another 8 hours?!!!

Is anyone awake at all?

Awake! Anything interesting happening in Kilkenny?!!

Is anyone awake at all?

I'm awful bored. Red bull... its a killer!

RE: help me pls

In my opinion (which is invariably wrong) it means that you are the person she knows, trusts and feels comfortable with so she is missing you. But that she is also seeing someone else (or several) and doesn't want to lose out on all that new-found fun. The problem she will run into is that if you said yes she would assume you won't bother seeing other girls. If you did get back on her terms and see other girls it would actually hurt her feelings and she would feel jealous.

At the same time you will be hurt and angry and jealous. So you two will fight a lot and it will go wrong.

The only way to get her back is to say no thanks, you are quite happy as you are and seeing other women and that if she wants you then she it would have to be you and no-one else or just forget it. Then get a mate to call you pretending to be some girl and tell her you've got to go...

Er.. is that confusing or straightforward? Not saying its right, just wat I'd do. And look it, I'm single so I know nothing!!

RE: Singles 30+ Weekend Clare Island Co Mayo 6/7/8th June E269

Oh, and you Optimistic... you know you want to

RE: Singles 30+ Weekend Clare Island Co Mayo 6/7/8th June E269

Too right! Tent sounds great!! Right that's you me and Patrick so far then

RE: Singles 30+ Weekend Clare Island Co Mayo 6/7/8th June E269

Dammit - that's Patrick invited then, definitely!!

RE: Singles 30+ Weekend Clare Island Co Mayo 6/7/8th June E269

Sorry its me again... WAIT A MINUTE... 9.15 am breakfast? Are they havin a laugh...

Right thats it! I'm organising a single's night in Kiltimagh. Everyone crash at mine. Drinking til 5am and no-one has to get up for breakfast. Won't be any food in my fridge anyhow as we need to cram 10 crates of beer into it.

How does that sound?

RE: Singles 30+ Weekend Clare Island Co Mayo 6/7/8th June E269

Reckon it'd be better to have it in Westport tho... that's a real party town If I was goin to Clare it would be to get away from people, not meet them! Maybe I should just go the followin weekend If anyone's going then message me... I'm tempted although that Ballroom of Romance thing made me feel a little queasy...

RE: Singles 30+ Weekend Clare Island Co Mayo 6/7/8th June E269

Sounds good...

RE: How do you rate Ireland?

Nah.. music business in London but here in Mayo... I work for nuns and priests at Knock Shrine. Turnabout or what?! I feel like its all just a dream, very weird. But I wake up every morning and think "Oh my god, I did it! I'm in Mayo.." I wanted to do it for 5 years but was too scared to leave London. Its the best thing I ever did. (not sure about the penguins and the father teds tho! )

RE: this is the pub : )

Well, I had a choice tonight. A date with an awful womaniser - but cute ;) - or a ridiculous cocktail of silly drinks with my mates. I chose my mates.

Right or wrong?

RE: why do people lead you on in a relationship lets say..........

Simple. People change their minds. They get freaked out. They get all keen and then realise the consequences of their enthusiasm and retreat.

RE: is this a irish site or what

FIFA 74. That is the thread we're on?

RE: Good Friday Traditions, do you stick to them

Wow this is really interesting. I have heard of the no-meat thing. But not the no drink..

Its interesting that on xmas day the pubs here are closed but in the UK the only pubs that open on Xmas day are usually the Irish pubs. Having said that, its usually to give xmas dinner to the elderly irish with no family. Lots of those in London sadly.

RE: Break ups!

Yes yes yes!! Except that a text is far too much communication - it leaves you open to them replying and you having to get into a conversation about your decision never to see them again. Best just not even communicate. I recommend changing your number, your name, your address and hiding for a few months. Is that cowardice? I think its the most sensible option!

RE: lend money

A long long time ago when I was just a teenager I inherited a thousand pounds (and in the 1890s that was a lot of cash!!!). I had a builder boyfriend who'd run into a cash flow problem and borrowed it on the promise of giving it back in 2 weeks. The next week he phoned me from Australia where he'd run away to his uncle to escape his enormous debts which I hadn't known about and had used my money for the flight etc. I was so angry at him and myself and ashamed to tell anyone how I'd squandered what my nan had left me.

Last year out of the blue,(20 er something years later) he found me. He'd flown back to the UK to repay his debts and make amends. So I got back exactly £1,000 (no interest mind..). He said sorry and asked me to forgive him and just flew back home and that's that.

Some people surprise you in this life. Mind you he was clearly having a breakdown! I don't know the moral to this story..

RE: ok then............................................

YES YES YES do that!! That's what I did in October when I moved to Ireland. I had to get everything into the back of my brothers car and I had an entire house of stuff. All I could take (after a lifetime of hoarding)was 4 bags of clothes and another coupla boxes of stuff. I threw out... 18 black sacks of clothes (read it girls and weep!) and all my other stuff I gave to mates or put in charity shops. It gives u a great sense of moving on to a new life. Of course now I have no plates and I haven't got a tin opener. I'm pining for my fluffy red coat. I've no TV and I have nothing..er .... but it was great honest. BIN IT!!! And use the fiver to buy a couple o cans. Get pissed and be a bag lady like me!

RE: The truth about drinking and writing in forums

Well they say "if you drink, don't talk and if you talk, don't drink" but that's easily confused after a bottle of lighter fuel. And there's no mention of textin or email. So I guess its ok...

Hey, I got a Valentine's Day kiss today - off a priest! Is that a sin???

RE: does the way a man dresses opinionate a woman as to what he is like??

Ah Christ! Sorry... And I wonder why I'm still single? Actually I kinda like tank tops!!

RE: does the way a man dresses opinionate a woman as to what he is like??

I'm the opposite. If someone turned up to meet me in smart clothes all ironed and stuff I'd think he was my dad or that his mum had dressed him up in Sunday best. The worse thing ever is v-necked jumpers over a shirt. Oh god. Or a vest showing through the shirt. Now I'm really starting to feel ill! But the very worse thing of all is lace up shoes like people wear in offices combined with jeans. Oh, and leather jackets. Or trousers that aren't quite long enough. Or if it is a shirt then tucked in is wrong. And moustaches. I HATE moustaches. Oh god, I'm ranting again aren't I?...

RE: just dont know what to think

Oh my GOD, run away!

RE: newbies

Not at all! I tried Another Friend. Now THAT is a terrible site. This is more like somewhere to just have a laugh and exchange ideas with people. Its easy to use and ok its unlikely I'm ever gonna date anyone here, but I've made a coupla friends. I like it!

RE: So all you singletons out there, what's your plan for valentines?

I prefer to go out 'couple-baiting' myself. Go and stand outside a nice restaurant where a loving couple are having a candlelight dinner in the window and drop yer keks (moonying as we brits call it).. Isn't that what most single people do on Valentines Day?

RE: Unlucky? Or just pick the wrong women?

Ah sure YOU'd enjoy it. No slap for you!

RE: RIP Heath Ledger

I just read up on the net about this and I am freaked. Not because we've lost an actor that we'd started to get used to and kinda like... but I have just read pages and pages about Heath Ledger passing away and who was interviewed and Morgan Freeman was upset and the press were there and umpteen celebrity quotes and his film will be distributed posthumously blah blah blah - pages of it, what a great guy, what a loss, and masses of crap about celebrities in their best outfits trying to pretend to cry etc.....

And not one word about the drug taking that eventually killed him.

Lets face it. If your neighbour died. Or your kids teacher. Or the man who serves you in Supermacs or the milkman or the local TD or the bus driver or a friend. What would you ask when you heard they'd died unexpectedly? You would ask why, surely? You certainly wouldn't get your best togs on for the red carpet and wait for the cameras to interview you about how fab he/she was. Not a single word in the article about how he died or what of.

Bizarre and ridiculously false. He did the whole Hollywood Babylon thing and the gamble didn't pay off.

Ok I love Pete Doherty and Amy Winehouse and if, one day, they overdo it and kick the bucket I will genuinely be upset. I'm not holier-than-thou. I drink and smoke and will probably pay the price. But being not public favourites, they will be written about as down and outs who got what they deserved....

Hollywood darlings... of course are different! Poor Heath, so tragic. What about Sid Vicious? Kurt Cobain. Jim Morrison.. the media were keen enough to tell you how those bad people died of an overdose.

Sure, probably Heath just caught a nasty cold at the studios... Anyone think to ask?

RE: Anyone? (Women only)

Awww..! Yep, if I wasn't a hundred years old then I'd take u out! But I am, so too bad!

RE: Singles night in Galway

Gutted I couldn't go. Tell us all how it went?

RE: Singles night in Galway

Wish i could be there. Bus Eireann prohibits! Have fun x