Break ups! (27)

Mar 13, 2008 6:35 PM CST Break ups!
corkgizmo
corkgizmocorkgizmocork, Cork Ireland19 Threads 1,582 Posts
Who here has been dumped by text message?And what do you think of it??blues And would you do it yourself?
Mar 13, 2008 7:34 PM CST Break ups!
janedo
janedojanedokilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland5 Threads 45 Posts
corkgizmo: Who here has been dumped by text message?And what do you think of it?? And would you do it yourself?


yeah i was dumped by txt from a cork man would u believe but next day he wanted me back tru txt but it backfired on him as i wouldnt take him back thumbs up for methumbs up thumbs up applause
Mar 14, 2008 5:19 AM CST Break ups!
dreamAngel70
dreamAngel70dreamAngel70out side Kilkenny city, Kilkenny Ireland87 Threads 6 Polls 2,187 Posts
corkgizmo: Who here has been dumped by text message?And what do you think of it?? And would you do it yourself?
Yep! i been dump my text message! hurtfull! And i wouldn't! scold
Mar 14, 2008 4:35 PM CST Break ups!
Lorzy
LorzyLorzyantrim, Antrim Ireland2 Threads 7 Posts
its a horrible cowardly thing to do...
however i done it myself years ago but i was only going out with the guy a week
Mar 15, 2008 7:36 PM CST Break ups!
lustfull
lustfulllustfullTralee, Kerry Ireland7 Threads 295 Posts
corkgizmo: Who here has been dumped by text message?And what do you think of it?? And would you do it yourself?

Its never been done to me, I would not do that to someonecomfort
Mar 17, 2008 7:34 AM CST Break ups!
corkgizmo
corkgizmocorkgizmocork, Cork Ireland19 Threads 1,582 Posts
lustfull: Its never been done to me, I would not do that to someone

Thanks for that,we need to get more replys here than people just coming in viewing,come on people give a comment!!help
Mar 18, 2008 5:53 AM CST Break ups!
CapeDoctor
CapeDoctorCapeDoctorGreystones, Wicklow Ireland16 Threads 2 Polls 137 Posts
corkgizmo: Who here has been dumped by text message?And what do you think of it?? And would you do it yourself?


Seems to be the standard way to dump someone nowadays dunno
Especially if it was just a short fling...
Mar 18, 2008 11:01 AM CST Break ups!
eyegirl
eyegirleyegirlSuburbs, Limerick Ireland12 Posts
i agree with cape doctor. i think its mad to meet somebody for sole purpose of finishing with them. dont waste their or your time i reckon.

if it was out of the blue i think it be bad but if you were having an argument by the ever dangerous textual sense and it ends up with oh forget it so! i dont see it as bad. i try to text as little as possible as it only leads to misunderstandings if things get anyway heated.
Mar 18, 2008 11:29 AM CST Break ups!
Mayo_Midfielder
Mayo_MidfielderMayo_MidfielderI landed in Kiltimagh, Mayo Ireland2 Threads 45 Posts
corkgizmo: Who here has been dumped by text message?And what do you think of it?? And would you do it yourself?

Yes yes yes!! Except that a text is far too much communication - it leaves you open to them replying and you having to get into a conversation about your decision never to see them again. Best just not even communicate. I recommend changing your number, your name, your address and hiding for a few months. Is that cowardice? I think its the most sensible option!
Mar 18, 2008 5:03 PM CST Break ups!
CapeDoctor
CapeDoctorCapeDoctorGreystones, Wicklow Ireland16 Threads 2 Polls 137 Posts
Well Mayo midfielder, I agree with most of your post, but I think the duration of the relationship should play a big part in the method of ending it. If its a short fling then the silent treatment is probably the best way, I'd its been a few months then a face to face confrontation is appropriate, a few years then its a serious boardroom style meeting & if its marriage then leave it to the courts hahaha!!!
Mar 19, 2008 5:39 PM CST Break ups!
ciotog
ciotogciotogGalway, Ireland9 Threads 530 Posts
Dumped by text message wouldn't be a lot of fun, it's a pretty lousy way to go about it! I think the silent, pretend it never happened dumping even manages to be classier.
Apr 1, 2008 3:24 PM CST Break ups!
corkgizmo
corkgizmocorkgizmocork, Cork Ireland19 Threads 1,582 Posts
Its happened again,what is it with women?Why cant ye just ring and say it as it is??If its not right just say it,frustrated
Apr 1, 2008 11:23 PM CST Break ups!
jimbhoy
jimbhoyjimbhoyHamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK80 Threads 2 Polls 4,142 Posts
Not nice by a phone call eithermoping moping
Apr 2, 2008 2:56 AM CST Break ups!
corkgizmo
corkgizmocorkgizmocork, Cork Ireland19 Threads 1,582 Posts
jimbhoy: Not nice by a phone call either
but it shows that they have some respect for you and its more personal that way,i know its hard to comfront someone and say it,but its not right to do it by text,its just an easy way out.thumbs down
Apr 2, 2008 2:56 AM CST Break ups!
corkgizmo
corkgizmocorkgizmocork, Cork Ireland19 Threads 1,582 Posts
jimbhoy: Not nice by a phone call either
but it shows that they have some respect for you and its more personal that way,i know its hard to confront someone and say it,but its not right to do it by text,its just an easy way out.thumbs down
Apr 2, 2008 7:18 PM CST Break ups!
SandyD
SandyDSandyDdublin, Dublin Ireland7 Posts
Get a life ,,,, grow up !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Apr 4, 2008 11:36 AM CST Break ups!
corkgizmo
corkgizmocorkgizmocork, Cork Ireland19 Threads 1,582 Posts
What can i say,this post was put here to ask peoples opinions on a certain subject,everyone does it,if you dont like the thread then you have your opinion,thats the whole meaning of it.But if someone has a problem with me,then talk to me about it,its nicer that waywave
Apr 4, 2008 1:14 PM CST Break ups!
patrickthomas
patrickthomaspatrickthomasMullingar, Westmeath Ireland33 Threads 4 Polls 1,911 Posts
I do think it is a Cr*p way to dump someone, doesn't show much depth of character. Think she did you a favour though, Better a text than a letter from a Divorce Lawyer a few years down the road!
Apr 5, 2008 5:44 AM CST Break ups!
gweniverre
gweniverregweniverreshannon, Clare Ireland14 Threads 1 Polls 136 Posts
corkgizmo: Who here has been dumped by text message?And what do you think of it?? And would you do it yourself?



well considering the options nowadays,theres email,msn,the friend of a friend tells you
rolling on the floor laughing
i wounder how the button pusher feels at the persice time of pushing that send button, dunno depends when it happens was it 2dates 4dates 6 mths a year

and yes i have done it i know what it felt like to have to do it,might enlighten yous all later on that situaton rolling on the floor laughing
Apr 5, 2008 6:31 AM CST Break ups!
patrickthomas
patrickthomaspatrickthomasMullingar, Westmeath Ireland33 Threads 4 Polls 1,911 Posts
gweniverre: well considering the options nowadays,theres email,msn,the friend of a friend tells you

i wounder how the button pusher feels at the persice time of pushing that send button, depends when it happens was it 2dates 4dates 6 mths a year

and yes i have done it i know what it felt like to have to do it,might enlighten yous all later on that situaton


"i wounder" you said it! Freudian slip which answers how you felt. tongue
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