What exactly is the root of always wanting something or wanting somebody.....or wanting something from somebody, and not really appreciating it and abusing it, and taking it for granted when you have that?
Yeah, I definitely see that there is a great deal of a beast in most men and women, whether we choose to be kind hearted to others or not. It's not the act that matters, but what really goes on inside the mind and heart of people that we should be paying attention to, including our own selves.
Yeah, I understand where you are coming from with this. It's not just doctors that are good at what they do and are sort of arrogant and snobbish towards people if you are not as important or don't have a degree like they do, but other high paying people who work hard for what they are trying to achieve just to flaunt their status (athletes, celebrities, coworkers, your boss.....etc).
Personally, I have never felt jealous, or envious, or respected somebody who I didn't like. I would take somebody who I can get along with really well and can talk to, then over how good that person is mainly because that person can always learn from their mistakes (if there are at all aware of them). But of course, you would rather have somebody who is balanced on both: personally and profession.
Being realistic and sttitude is what matters the most.
It's hard enough to fully satisfy one person, yet along two. It's possible to satisfy two women, depending on the type of person you are dealing with.
You be lucky to find somebody who is understanding and open minded enough to realize that they are more people out there who are compatible with you too. But I wouldn't want to be with both women in the same household.
It's just like driving a car, you can only drive one at a time.
I don't let that kind of thing bother me anymore. People are going to like you or not like you, which 9 out of 10 times, it will be for a dumb reason in either sense. If you like me enough to be fair with me and considerate, then it's fair game, if not, then I won't care too much about you either.
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What exactly is the root of always wanting something or wanting somebody.....or wanting something from somebody, and not really appreciating it and abusing it, and taking it for granted when you have that?