Yes that's a good point, be yourself, if you the expectation of being treated then say so, or if you want to be treated as equal and allowed to pull your weight, then say so
So ladies, I'm a guy and I know that women are offended when they go out on a date with a guy and he doesn't conform the the rules that you think should be adhered to, such as opening doors, pulling out chairs, buying the drinks, or paying for the meal; or is that old school and finished with? Me personally I feel that you fight for equality in everything so what the heck, pay your weight like the rest of the guys that you are fighting to be like Lol, just kidding. But seriously, what are the rules and what do you expect should happen on your dates.
yes agreed, but how many times are you willing to take that risk, that's why I feel a lot of us make the mistake of accepting and settling for the wrong counterpart that we spend a good portion of our life with in a loveless relationship. I will choose and choose and choose again until I get it right, there's no law that says I can't explore my options fully before I get my heart broken or love scorned every time.
LikeI said, not hiding, it's protecting one' self from being used and hurt. No one wants to be rejected or taken advantage of, that's what makes sour and angry people who transfer their emotions into a future relationship.
and what what's the comparison there? Men way their options physically, women who don't talk a lot, are seductive and beautiful; women way there options in their security - is he a nice guy, family oriented, steady job, takes care of his responsibilities and such.
real men don't hide, we relate with others openly, especially with women, there are lots of relationships and marriages that have lasted 20-30 years and less because the men and women really communicate and reciprocate the emotions and feelings openly
I feel that women think that men are heartless and without affection, but that's not true, we men have a lot of love and affection, but most men are afraid to show it, because we are afraid of getting hurt just as you are.
there's nothing wrong with that, love is beautiful, making love, being in love are all warm and beautiful, and when you love someone, you want to cuddle, hug and be playful with them. It's a sign of intimacy and bonding
well I'm the kind a guy who prefers the direct approach, it's astonishing how much more better it is to be upfront, frank and direct with men, we are not all egocentric, but if you wanna do it without hurting his feelings, take him out to dinner, not a sport game, or a movie, but dinner in a nice place, get him relaxed and comfortable, then slowly let him know what you feel about the relationship and eventual, let him know you want out. That way you've laid it all out on the table, he has heard everything and has no excuses.
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Lol, just kidding. But seriously, what are the rules and what do you expect should happen on your dates.
Dating rules
Yes that's a good point, be yourself, if you the expectation of being treated then say so, or if you want to be treated as equal and allowed to pull your weight, then say so