I actually thought this might be a serious discussion, but alas, my fears for the human race have been answered as I expected... I wish I hadn't even responded to this poll now.
I keep logging in to find new scam profiles, so I went to the advanced search page and discovered that you cannot eliminate new profiles from being presented in your search results. I think this would be helpful.
I also have an issue with finding active members - so maybe a "sort by last logged in" option would be even more helpful.
I don't know if anyone a CS will even read this thread, but if you can think of something else they could add to improve this site, post it below and who knows, maybe we can get them to do it.
So where is the "it doesn't matter" or maybe the "it all depends" option? So many people are stuck on things that individuals don't always have control over, and they get judged for it. How can I say it's an automatic deal-breaker if a woman has been married and divorced 3 or more times if I don't know the circumstances? We have all done stupid things in our youth, sometimes it takes a while for us to mature and realize what led us to make those mistakes, and then make the necessary corrections. That said, a woman having multiple children with multiple fathers regardless of marital status is more likely to be a red flag than just having been married and divorced. I would, however, NEVER even consider dating a woman who was currently married or separated as that's just asking for more trouble than you may want. And in the end, how could you ever trust such a person - they left one partner for you - so what would stop them from leaving you for a different partner in the future?
RE: would you date an ex girl/boy friend
I actually thought this might be a serious discussion, but alas, my fears for the human race have been answered as I expected... I wish I hadn't even responded to this poll now.