Would you date someone who is? ( Archived) (48)

Jan 25, 2021 7:55 AM CSTWould you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales, UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts

Would you date someone who is?(Vote Below)

- (To Vote: select an option above, then press this button)
Divorced 1 time
5
12%
Divorced 2 times
3
8%
Divorced 3 or more times
5
12%
Still Married but separated
3
8%
never married
17
42%
widowed
7
18%
Total Votes
40
Is it a red flag to you...if someone has been divorced 3 times or more?
Is it a red flag to you...if someone is still Married but separated?
Is it a red flag to you...if your date has never been married?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 8:04 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Yes.
Not really, if they have a good explanation.
Not really, but there is a host of stuff to consider.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 8:19 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
"Is it a red flag to you?"

To find out, down the road, they have Illegitimate children


Oh hell no! scold
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 8:28 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Red flags on the relationship front would be
. Never had a 'live with' relationship (at our age)...
. Has restraining orders from ex(es)...
. Has never been self sufficient so always was 'kept by someone' ...
. Not keen on the still married but separated. Would depend on circumtances if it would bother me...
Many other red flags but they're not related to past relationship status
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 8:31 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Lee, not enough informations
is she a hot blond with a brunet bush, freak in the bedroom ,25-35 y/o conversing
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 8:32 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Jan 25, 2021 10:47 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
I am not attracted to males that take marriage as a game and collect ex wives... I respect a male that lost his wife due to illness or a male that married once and his marriage didn't go well and doesn't want to rush into marriages number 2, 3, 4, 5, etc... I am attracted to males that LEARN from their experiences... So, to me, it would be a widower or a divorced male... That is, divorced ONCE... bouquet
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 1:18 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Melody1671: I am not attracted to males that take marriage as a game and collect ex wives... I respect a male that lost his wife due to illness or a male that married once and his marriage didn't go well and doesn't want to rush into marriages number 2, 3, 4, 5, etc... I am attracted to males that LEARN from their experiences... So, to me, it would be a widower or a divorced male... That is, divorced ONCE...
Some are also serial daters. I knew this ‘friend’ who went through about six while I was still on one. Weird that my ex-girlfriend thought he was a nice man dunno
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 1:44 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Melody1671: I am not attracted to males that take marriage as a game and collect ex wives... I respect a male that lost his wife due to illness or a male that married once and his marriage didn't go well and doesn't want to rush into marriages number 2, 3, 4, 5, etc... I am attracted to males that LEARN from their experiences... So, to me, it would be a widower or a divorced male... That is, divorced ONCE...
I've been married twice and had 2 other significant relationships in a 40 year period ... grin
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 1:50 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Melody1671: I am not attracted to males that take marriage as a game and collect ex wives... I respect a male that lost his wife due to illness or a male that married once and his marriage didn't go well and doesn't want to rush into marriages number 2, 3, 4, 5, etc... I am attracted to males that LEARN from their experiences... So, to me, it would be a widower or a divorced male... That is, divorced ONCE...
hmmm makes me wish i was younger sigh divorced once then widower once wave
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 1:55 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
galrads: makes me wish i was younger divorced once then widower once
Jajajajajajaajajajjaja... You are adorable!... laugh wave bouquet
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 2:06 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Melody1671: Jajajajajajaajajajjaja... You are adorable!...
Does your keyboard keep getting stuck on j&a or is that really a word with 11a’s and 11j’s laugh
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 2:29 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Lonely1: Does your keyboard keep getting stuck on j&a or is that really a word with 11a’s and 11j’s
Jajajajaja! Is Spanish for hahahahaha!

laugh
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2021 3:33 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Selenite: Jajajajaja! Is Spanish for hahahahaha!
Jaja laugh
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 10:50 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
votes so far...
Divorced 1 time
1
17%
Divorced 2 times
0
0%
Divorced 3 or more times
0
0%
Still Married but separated
0
0%
never married
4
67%
widowed
1
17%
Total Votes
6
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 10:51 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
My preference would be never married...but would consider married one timewow
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 10:58 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: Red flags on the relationship front would be
. Never had a 'live with' relationship (at our age)...
. Has restraining orders from ex(es)...
. Has never been self sufficient so always was 'kept by someone' ...
. Not keen on the still married but separated. Would depend on circumtances if it would bother me...
- Many other red flags but they're not related to past relationship status
- You said at our age? Is their more than one of youdunno laugh
- Do you really think...that type of man...would admit if he had restraining ordersconfused
- fair enough
- and what would the circumstances be confused
- in your many red flags...but not related to past relationships...but I can think of a hood number more red flagswink
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 10:59 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
"Is it a red flag to you...if someone has been divorced 3 times or more?
Is it a red flag to you...if someone is still Married but separated?
Is it a red flag to you...if your date has never been married?.."


I was in a relationship with someone who was divorced 3 times. Eventually I learned why his marriages didn't stick.

Married men who say they are separated is usually a lie and that doesn't float my boat.

I was in a relationship with someone who never married. The more I got to know him the more I understood why he never married.

In today's world I think people are backing off from getting married and I am in agreement with that. In my opinion marriage destroys a loving relationship.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 11:02 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
Lonely1: Yes.
Not really, if they have a good explanation.
Not really, but there is a host of stuff to consider.
. yES......,...grin
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 11:03 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: Red flags on the relationship front would be
. Never had a 'live with' relationship (at our age)...
. Has restraining orders from ex(es)...
. Has never been self sufficient so always was 'kept by someone' ...
. Not keen on the still married but separated. Would depend on circumtances if it would bother me...
Many other red flags but they're not related to past relationship status
You said at our age? Is their more than one of you?
- Do you really think...that type of man...would admit if he had restraining orders?
- fair enough?
- and what would the circumstances be?
- in your view many red flags...but not related to past relationships...but I can think of a good number more red flagswink
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 11:22 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
Geronimolion
GeronimolionGeronimolionSan Pedro Alcantara, Andalusia Spain63 Posts
Is it a red flag to you...if someone has been divorced 3 times or more? Yes
Is it a red flag to you...if someone is still Married but separated? Depends
Is it a red flag to you...if your date has never been married? Nope,some people just don't want to marry, or remarry.(Specialy today...and there are reasons for that).
But there are more red flags for whether or not to marry or marry again of course
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 11:39 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
I seen a fair number of women's dating profile on this and other sites...I have noticed the negativity and man bashing on the written description...supposed to be about the woman...but instead one single line about her...and many lines about what a man must be and must not bedoh rolling on the floor laughing

A word of advice...A player won't care and will still try to play you...no matter how much you rant on your profile about men...The chances are you will attract the very men you claim to not wantdoh laugh
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 11:48 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
Geronimolion
GeronimolionGeronimolionSan Pedro Alcantara, Andalusia Spain63 Posts
I seen a fair number of women's dating profile on this and other sites...I have noticed the negativity and man bashing on the written description...supposed to be about the woman...but instead one single line about her...and many lines about what a man must be and must not bedoh rolling on the floor laughing

A word of advice...A player won't care and will still try to play you...no matter how much you rant on your profile about men...The chances are you will attract the very men you claim to not wantdoh laugh

There is a lot to say about that, but if we reverse the roles ... this also applies to men ...dunno
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 12:23 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Butin: . yES......,...
I see you are good to go as long as she has a complete body with all her parts laugh cheers
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 12:31 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
Lonely1: I see you are good to go as long as she has a complete body with all her parts
Dr. Y ES....???????one yes is better then a whole page of
Exsplainations......grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 1:05 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: - You said at our age? Is their more than one of you
- Do you really think...that type of man...would admit if he had restraining orders
- fair enough
- and what would the circumstances be
- in your many red flags...but not related to past relationships...but I can think of a hood number more red flags
It'd be hilarious if there was more than one of me!! laugh I meant at the age of me and presumed similar age partner ...

A quick chat with ex would establish anything like restraining orders ... wink

Circumstances where separation but not divorced would be acceptable for me, if divorce proceedings were already underway or if their ex is already in an established relationship with somebody else for instance...

Many red flags ... from drink to jealousy, to controlling, to rude to staff in shops or restaurants, to not self-sufficient, to speaking negatively about mother and or women generally ... conversing
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 1:31 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: It'd be hilarious if there was more than one of me!! I meant at the age of me and presumed similar age partner ...

A quick chat with ex would establish anything like restraining orders ...

Circumstances where separation but not divorced would be acceptable for me, if divorce proceedings were already underway or if their ex is already in an established relationship with somebody else for instance...

Many red flags ... from drink to jealousy, to controlling, to rude to staff in shops or restaurants, to not self-sufficient, to speaking negatively about mother and or women generally ...
- If dopplelganger...I'm not sure many would be laughing...but they might be cryingtongue
- How would you know the ex? Would he really give you all her contact details etc?grin
- sounds too complicatedwow confused
- are you confessing or confused grin laugh
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 1:39 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: - If dopplelganger...I'm not sure many would be laughing...but they might be crying
- How would you know the ex? Would he really give you all her contact details etc?
- sounds too complicated
- are you confessing or
laugh @ doppelganger!!

On the last point, I guess you'll never know grin
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 1:46 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
not really the same...cause marriage vowels are....in sickness and in health...as long as you both shall live...till death us do part...a contract is made up and both must sign...in a long term relationship...no such contract is present and both parties could walk away....without legal action being taken

typo - without
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 1:47 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
LeeCharming: not really the same...cause marriage vowels are....in sickness and in health...as long as you both shall live...till death us do part...a contract is made up and both must sign...in a long term relationship...no such contract is present and both parties could walk away....with legal action being taken
What about a moral contract between two consenting adults..is that not worth more than a government and religious conjured one
------ This poll is Archived ------
Jan 27, 2021 1:55 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: @ doppelganger!!

On the last point, I guess you'll never know

wow
------ This poll is Archived ------

This Poll is Archived

This Poll is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Poll get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
Message #318

Stats for this Poll

40 Votes
2,110 Views
48 Comments
Created: Jan 2021
Last Viewed: 13 hrs ago
Last Commented: Feb 2021
Last Voted: Jul 2023

Share this Poll

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here