Is it a red flag to you...if someone has been divorced 3 times or more? Is it a red flag to you...if someone is still Married but separated? Is it a red flag to you...if your date has never been married?
Red flags on the relationship front would be . Never had a 'live with' relationship (at our age)... . Has restraining orders from ex(es)... . Has never been self sufficient so always was 'kept by someone' ... . Not keen on the still married but separated. Would depend on circumtances if it would bother me... Many other red flags but they're not related to past relationship status
I am not attracted to males that take marriage as a game and collect ex wives... I respect a male that lost his wife due to illness or a male that married once and his marriage didn't go well and doesn't want to rush into marriages number 2, 3, 4, 5, etc... I am attracted to males that LEARN from their experiences... So, to me, it would be a widower or a divorced male... That is, divorced ONCE...
Melody1671: I am not attracted to males that take marriage as a game and collect ex wives... I respect a male that lost his wife due to illness or a male that married once and his marriage didn't go well and doesn't want to rush into marriages number 2, 3, 4, 5, etc... I am attracted to males that LEARN from their experiences... So, to me, it would be a widower or a divorced male... That is, divorced ONCE...
Some are also serial daters. I knew this ‘friend’ who went through about six while I was still on one. Weird that my ex-girlfriend thought he was a nice man
Melody1671: I am not attracted to males that take marriage as a game and collect ex wives... I respect a male that lost his wife due to illness or a male that married once and his marriage didn't go well and doesn't want to rush into marriages number 2, 3, 4, 5, etc... I am attracted to males that LEARN from their experiences... So, to me, it would be a widower or a divorced male... That is, divorced ONCE...
I've been married twice and had 2 other significant relationships in a 40 year period ...
Melody1671: I am not attracted to males that take marriage as a game and collect ex wives... I respect a male that lost his wife due to illness or a male that married once and his marriage didn't go well and doesn't want to rush into marriages number 2, 3, 4, 5, etc... I am attracted to males that LEARN from their experiences... So, to me, it would be a widower or a divorced male... That is, divorced ONCE...
makes me wish i was younger divorced once then widower once
votes so far... Divorced 1 time 1 17% Divorced 2 times 0 0% Divorced 3 or more times 0 0% Still Married but separated 0 0% never married 4 67% widowed 1 17% Total Votes 6
Selenite: Red flags on the relationship front would be . Never had a 'live with' relationship (at our age)... . Has restraining orders from ex(es)... . Has never been self sufficient so always was 'kept by someone' ... . Not keen on the still married but separated. Would depend on circumtances if it would bother me... - Many other red flags but they're not related to past relationship status
- You said at our age? Is their more than one of you - Do you really think...that type of man...would admit if he had restraining orders - fair enough - and what would the circumstances be - in your many red flags...but not related to past relationships...but I can think of a hood number more red flags
"Is it a red flag to you...if someone has been divorced 3 times or more? Is it a red flag to you...if someone is still Married but separated? Is it a red flag to you...if your date has never been married?.."
I was in a relationship with someone who was divorced 3 times. Eventually I learned why his marriages didn't stick.
Married men who say they are separated is usually a lie and that doesn't float my boat.
I was in a relationship with someone who never married. The more I got to know him the more I understood why he never married.
In today's world I think people are backing off from getting married and I am in agreement with that. In my opinion marriage destroys a loving relationship.
Selenite: Red flags on the relationship front would be . Never had a 'live with' relationship (at our age)... . Has restraining orders from ex(es)... . Has never been self sufficient so always was 'kept by someone' ... . Not keen on the still married but separated. Would depend on circumtances if it would bother me... Many other red flags but they're not related to past relationship status
You said at our age? Is their more than one of you? - Do you really think...that type of man...would admit if he had restraining orders? - fair enough? - and what would the circumstances be? - in your view many red flags...but not related to past relationships...but I can think of a good number more red flags
Jan 27, 2021 11:22 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
GeronimolionSan Pedro Alcantara, Andalusia Spain63 Posts
GeronimolionSan Pedro Alcantara, Andalusia Spain63 posts
Is it a red flag to you...if someone has been divorced 3 times or more? Yes Is it a red flag to you...if someone is still Married but separated? Depends Is it a red flag to you...if your date has never been married? Nope,some people just don't want to marry, or remarry.(Specialy today...and there are reasons for that). But there are more red flags for whether or not to marry or marry again of course
I seen a fair number of women's dating profile on this and other sites...I have noticed the negativity and man bashing on the written description...supposed to be about the woman...but instead one single line about her...and many lines about what a man must be and must not be
A word of advice...A player won't care and will still try to play you...no matter how much you rant on your profile about men...The chances are you will attract the very men you claim to not want
Jan 27, 2021 11:48 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
GeronimolionSan Pedro Alcantara, Andalusia Spain63 Posts
GeronimolionSan Pedro Alcantara, Andalusia Spain63 posts
I seen a fair number of women's dating profile on this and other sites...I have noticed the negativity and man bashing on the written description...supposed to be about the woman...but instead one single line about her...and many lines about what a man must be and must not bedoh rolling on the floor laughing
A word of advice...A player won't care and will still try to play you...no matter how much you rant on your profile about men...The chances are you will attract the very men you claim to not wantdoh laugh
There is a lot to say about that, but if we reverse the roles ... this also applies to men ...
LeeCharming: - You said at our age? Is their more than one of you - Do you really think...that type of man...would admit if he had restraining orders - fair enough - and what would the circumstances be - in your many red flags...but not related to past relationships...but I can think of a hood number more red flags
It'd be hilarious if there was more than one of me!! I meant at the age of me and presumed similar age partner ...
A quick chat with ex would establish anything like restraining orders ...
Circumstances where separation but not divorced would be acceptable for me, if divorce proceedings were already underway or if their ex is already in an established relationship with somebody else for instance...
Many red flags ... from drink to jealousy, to controlling, to rude to staff in shops or restaurants, to not self-sufficient, to speaking negatively about mother and or women generally ...
Selenite: It'd be hilarious if there was more than one of me!! I meant at the age of me and presumed similar age partner ...
A quick chat with ex would establish anything like restraining orders ...
Circumstances where separation but not divorced would be acceptable for me, if divorce proceedings were already underway or if their ex is already in an established relationship with somebody else for instance...
Many red flags ... from drink to jealousy, to controlling, to rude to staff in shops or restaurants, to not self-sufficient, to speaking negatively about mother and or women generally ...
- If dopplelganger...I'm not sure many would be laughing...but they might be crying - How would you know the ex? Would he really give you all her contact details etc? - sounds too complicated - are you confessing or
LeeCharming: - If dopplelganger...I'm not sure many would be laughing...but they might be crying - How would you know the ex? Would he really give you all her contact details etc? - sounds too complicated - are you confessing or
not really the same...cause marriage vowels are....in sickness and in health...as long as you both shall live...till death us do part...a contract is made up and both must sign...in a long term relationship...no such contract is present and both parties could walk away....without legal action being taken
LeeCharming: not really the same...cause marriage vowels are....in sickness and in health...as long as you both shall live...till death us do part...a contract is made up and both must sign...in a long term relationship...no such contract is present and both parties could walk away....with legal action being taken
What about a moral contract between two consenting adults..is that not worth more than a government and religious conjured one
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Is it a red flag to you...if someone is still Married but separated?
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