What is it that you look for when searching for a mate on a dating site?
For me it is the complete package... I have read some great profiles only to be disappointed to find they have not posted a photo! Others may have a photo but the profile content could be very short and they do not use the forums!
For me a photo is important at the start because it gives you something/someone to identify with while reading about them and their likes/dislikes... but equally important is the use of the forums as this is where the personality of the member tends to become apparent... I get to see the difference between their good and bad days and how they feel/think about certain issues! The sense of humour shows and the member starts to become a real, living person!
What do you think? and what is it that helps you to decide if you are going to make contact with another member?
This poll and your profile make you appear very insecure! and your use of English (or lack of it) could lead one to think that you are lacking intelligence!
Text chat is OK for mobiles (cellphones for our friends across the pond!) but here at CS you are not being charged per message you post!
So to sum it up.. you may have some great attributes but the way you have chose to show them is rather poor!
btw you will find when you ask such questions on a forum such as this, you will get the answers... but they may not be the ones you were seeking!
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Cyber Dating
What is it that you look for when searching for a mate on a dating site?For me it is the complete package... I have read some great profiles only to be disappointed to find they have not posted a photo! Others may have a photo but the profile content could be very short and they do not use the forums!
For me a photo is important at the start because it gives you something/someone to identify with while reading about them and their likes/dislikes... but equally important is the use of the forums as this is where the personality of the member tends to become apparent... I get to see the difference between their good and bad days and how they feel/think about certain issues! The sense of humour shows and the member starts to become a real, living person!
What do you think? and what is it that helps you to decide if you are going to make contact with another member?