That is why you find fault. You need an Artist Mentality, to understand. Btw. I am sure you do have some artist ways, and you have definitely Never noticed it yourself, and no-one ever told you you had it either, or you are just joking! I choose the last option!!!!
Some common sense must be applied as well, Except if you are good at Calligraphy? What about doing something with your hands, not clapping? Else you are one of the Non-Artist Types!
Contacting old friends, make the holidays, so much more significant! You feel your heart overflowing, and appreciating life to it's fullest! The smallest little thing can make your day, and many more! What is significant to you, is what counts!
How are you an Artist?
Thank You, for sharing your artistic talent(s) with us!