We all have friends and acquaintances. Can you possibly find the special someone under these, or where will you find one? Some goes to strip clubs, partying, drinking, games, sport, etc mainly looking for someone, as they have been told it is better to mingle.
On a world wide singles site, have you found someone so far? Here depending on your personality, you will be mingling always. Some will look and never find, and others, not so discriminatory, will find over and over again, but no permanence involved! Some will find someone hopefully forever!
What is better for you: Always having someone around? or just sometimes? or waiting for that special someone, for the rest if your life?
Well marriage is not always happy, and nowadays don't last long either. Then most people marry the next one, and the next, and so on. Some don't stop. What is happening to human-kind? Our value system doesn't exist anymore!!!
That is very bad. You are a very nice person. You will find the right one, that will love you unconditionally, as your deserve. I wish you all the best for the future. Thanks for opening up to me. You did not have to.
People are all different, having experienced different lives to date. If you want to get married, be single, or just co-exist, it is your choice, but what you want for yourself, only you will know, and would not put on a world wide forum, as it's no-ones business but your own!!!!
Interesting how you perceive things. We seem to agree but call things by different names. It also means that you will be almost single always, as not to depend on others for anything, as it will make you dependant. Kids have no choice in being dependant.
Really, all these people with the very expensive beach houses, can write them off as a bad investment, as no-one will buy it from them, maybe some will!!!!!
I have heard of cases, where the parents were separated and the father using "I love you" as a way to psychologically manipulate the kids, for this you owe me that. Afterwards the kids did not believe in "I love you" anymore as it was a weapon to them. According to me, this father should never have had kids, at all. He is a danger to them!
Yes, I agree with you that you will feel it most of the time, but there are times when we all are down in the dumps, and need those words desperately. Saying the words means a lot to most!!! If it means nothing to you, tell the people around you Not to say it to you, as you perceive it as false!!!
I will ask you the same, How often is your "regularly"? Never?
Not many people say "I love you" easily. It very much depends on how many times it had been said to them in the past. You will become psychologically damaged from lack of attention and value to others, the less it happens.
People grow up in this condition, never finding love, staying single for a lifetime. Some people grow out of it, but the little inner voice will always be there to ask them:
Are you loved at all, by anyone?
and the next step is psychiatric counselling, for years and years!
Please tell your partner / kids / etc that you love them regularly, to prevent this pattern continuing ad infinitum?
smiley963 Forum Posts (3,651)
Someone in your life - to what extent will you go?
You are so low class!!!!!