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Drowning in relationships

Drowning in relationships

Ah, off thread and back on your fav. subject,

well I'm off out now to enjoy the sunshine, do some work and enjoy my day


for soon too soon its back to Ireland and work

Drowning in relationships

Should have mentioned the allover suntan is coming along well




After all this time daren't do it myself, too close to my house and greenhouse, need both. Might break a fingernail blocking

but want to have a go on digger to put in a couple of fence posts - away from my house and greenhouse- what ton have you got?

Oh happy days

Drowning in relationships

na thats a different one


hey I have a job for ya, digging out 20 sq foot f muck and putting down drains, concrete n building a block wall round two side one abut 3 foot the other about 5 foot - whats the best deal

Drowning in relationships

Hiya

give me your words of wisdom -

Drowning in relationships

Surrender - no not that


I like playing that game we can play later - if you like

Drowning in relationships

- not hanging - get insulation installed


Ahh, compromise not sure really never do it ahm I think its like when one person meets another half way on a decision.

Like I say to you - honey I want a new Harley, you say we can't afford it, and then I get a moped instead I dont get what I want and we spend money on something you didnt want to

Hell, I'm bad at this relationship stuff - is there a "dummies guide"

In over my depth I think

Drowning in relationships

Thank God, no one says it has to be marriage - personally never going there again

but if that is the definition of marriage, what is the definition of a committed relationships?

Drowning in relationships

Fit in with your life? does she have to change her life? Are we talking compromise?


hiya honey hows it hanging

Drowning in relationships

yes, I recently had a think about this marriage lark, and I think it needs re looking at.

could marriage be difined as:

A set of rules, regulations and punishments, made by people for others to live up to?

Who said it has to be this way?
How do we rewrite the book?

Drowning in relationships

I was expecting something profound and insightful from ya

Is there no hope for me, or you? or are there more of us out there.


My uncle in his 80's has a girlfriend and they live in seperate houses 450 miles apart, they manage their own lives. They talked marriage, but both like where they live, she has family near by.

They ring each other as say stuff like meet you in Paris on Wednesday, and they do it they have a hell of a time, very romantic, very physical (so I am told) very happy -

Is this the answer for me?

Drowning in relationships

I ask the following, because I am coming to the conclusion that I can not be in a relationship, as I am far too independent, and do not wish to loose this life that I am happy that I have and happy to live.

So do we have to give up independence in a relationship?

Can two people lead independent lives and still be in a committed relationship, bringing their lives together to make that relationship, or do we have to melt into each others lives, make concessions to the others life - does this mean we loose something of ourselves, and is it important.

I know I'm not the run of the mill type of girl, but we all have our own precious individualities that we should value and keep?

RE: FLOWERS FOR NUALA

All the way from NZ just for you:

RE: What was the highlight of summer 2008 for you?

Did you really have to do this, now I have to think, and its a hard choice. Had my best summer in years,

Got to go to NZ twice, met someone who I know is going to be a very special person to me for the rest of my life (no we aint doing that, well yes that, not the white dress thingy)

I was 50

I was taken to Tahiti and bought a string of Tahitian black pearls

And Alfie came into my life my Harley Sportster Custom 883

I have had more dates, coffee dates and even the ongoing relationships than I have had since I was in my 20s, AND a big thanks to all the lads I have met here and the ones I am going to meet mwa mwa AND to the women for been so friendly and open. Thanks girls mwa mwa

Most of all I got to know myself better and am now happy with my life for the first time since my partner died 8 years ago. I have started to smile to myself while driving the car/van/truck/bike, or while walking down the street, sitting at my computer, gardening whatever I just smile to myself.

I think folk think I'm up to something

If I had to pick one thing its that I fell in love again, not with a person but with my life, and everything that that involves.

RE: Wish me luck.....irish luck :)))

Good luck hun, and you can only do and be your own best

RE: Is it possible to be more beautiful with age?

RE: Is it possible to be more beautiful with age?

Not

No

RE: Is it possible to be more beautiful with age?

Theres not watching honey, I'm a leader not a follower

RE: Is it possible to be more beautiful with age?

Tomorrow evening I am flying out to New Zealand for a fortninght where I will celebrate my 50th birthday - never thought I'd make it

I may then be thrown out of the country (wouldn't be the first country I was thrown out of ...


I presume you are going? hope the girls gang up on you and batter some sence into ya

RE: Is it possible to be more beautiful with age?

I truely beleive age and beauty only became linked by marketing people for cosmetic companies.

Beauty is from the inside out, if you are happy, live at peace with yourself and look after yourself, then you glow, smile and give off an aura of confidence.

Babies can be beautiful and so can 100 year old women, age is nothing to do with it.

men however are just handsome

RE: hi

Kick yuor shoes off, make yourself at home and help yourself to drink....honey you will need it

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