But seriously don't think for a minute that it is just guys. Nobody likes to be rejected and consideration should always be given to try and let that person down gently. So please be nice if you expect the guys to be nice back to you.
You have captured exactly my reasoning and expressed yourself with clarity and great insight. Thanks so much.
A long term friend I caught up with today who has never met my ex but knows me well. When the subject came up her comment was very similar to what you said and her reasoning was that she knew me well and knew that I would not have taken this decision lightly and that it is bound to be the right one.
But I so do not like to hurt anyone, so I guess I am double guessing myself because it is such an important decision and it also affects someone elses future.
Thanks to all. Your thoughts and ideas are very helpful and very much appreciated
Yes I have had previous bad experiences which for me were 2 failed marriages where I lost more than half my assets not to mention my beautiful children.
So I guess I am cautious, perhaps overly so. But that is me and I am trying to make the right decision on many factors and finances unfortunately is one of them. I have built up a reasonable nest egg and younger I am not getting so I am trying to look out for my future.
But there are many very important fundamental differences between us to do with goals, values etc etc.
I felt that a short time apart would help to see how we both feel but she sees it as a breakup. Maybe that would have been the inevitable outcome anyway though I felt that it was worth trying.
Recently I let go of someone because I felt that she was not "The One" for me. She is a lovely and special person but I truly felt that we both needed to find somebody that was more suited for each of us.
She is now totally devastated as she truly loved me and I also feel very bad and very down. I know that we are both far from perfect but wanted for the both of us to find long term happiness.
Any ideas on how I can try to lessen the pain for the both of us? Also your thoughts on what makes an ideal partner the " Right One" for you? Your wisdom and sharing your experiences would be much appreciated.
"A Beautiful Bunch Of Misfits" who are really more sane than most people I know. You can easilly share your joys, sorrows and experiences.
But most of all, you are always ready to help others with support, understanding, good advice and cheerful humour. That is so precious and rare and I want to say thank you for just being you.
I'd like to send my love and best wishes to all for a wonderful festive season.
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