Hi "Narlythinz" above is absolutely spot on. Unfortunately for us men most women give us very different and often conflicting messages. As in they want us to be both strong and fearless but also warm and sensitive.
But when we do try with sensitivity or show our fears and emmotions the women usually lose interest thinking that a guy who has fears is not strong. But as I recently saw in a movie where they said that " Without Fear There Is No Courage!" I agree with that 1000% as I think would most men.
It is sad for both that these are the standards and expectations that we live by, but all I can suggest is that you be patient. If you make it easy for the guy to open up and you show that you respect him even more (Not Less) for opening up then he may be encouraged to do it more often and so hopefully you can both build a relationship based on mutual respect and understanding.
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Hi "Narlythinz" above is absolutely spot on. Unfortunately for us men most women give us very different and often conflicting messages. As in they want us to be both strong and fearless but also warm and sensitive.But when we do try with sensitivity or show our fears and emmotions the women usually lose interest thinking that a guy who has fears is not strong. But as I recently saw in a movie where they said that " Without Fear There Is No Courage!" I agree with that 1000% as I think would most men.
It is sad for both that these are the standards and expectations that we live by, but all I can suggest is that you be patient. If you make it easy for the guy to open up and you show that you respect him even more (Not Less) for opening up then he may be encouraged to do it more often and so hopefully you can both build a relationship based on mutual respect and understanding.
I wish you all the very best "lippy"