Men and women think very diffrent. men see and think of things simply, black and white. women see all the shades of grey aswel.
when we are first dating in our teen years it is alot easier. yes the black/white and the grey is there but when we are older and have been hurt that is what makes it complicated. like a guy who has had a bad time with a woman who sees every shade of grey there is will think the next woman he meets is the same, even if she doesnt see so much grey as the previous one. am i making sense??
a guy will meet a woman for a date, all is going well. woman says or does something like say 'oh i cant decide what to eat' so guy will think....oh no shes like my ex needy, clingy....guy politley finishes date and the second he walks away forgets the woman, who has no idea! so the woman is calling and messaging and wants to know whats going on why he hasnt replied or been in contact then the guy thinks ...yup i was right needy... now the woman who actually isnt needy and clingy is left wondering WTF happened she will go over the date and talk with friends and others and try to figure it out as we women see all shades of grey where as the man will of forgotten that she even exsists as he only sees black and white.
now if the guy hadnt had the needy clingy ex he wouldnt of jumped to the conclusion this woman was the same.
maybe there is a easier way of saying this but that is my thought about why guys dissapear.
we all need to put the past away and when we meet new people start with a clean page.
RE: meeting him tomorro
Good for you, it is so exciting meeting someone for the first time.Have a good time and be careful and let us know how it went :)