Question for you men (201)
I've never vanished.
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This is a big question.....
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It could be alot of things,one of the things for me,is when I confide in a woman,and she violates my trust in her.
BIG TURN OFF.
BIG TURN OFF.
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Generalisations 
Not all us men display these behavioral traits, maybe you should ask the one who did it to you....
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ChinaS: Based on another thread that is going and quoting below the point that I want to ask about,
"Usually guys have no courage to tell you the truth so they choose easier way - they simply vanish. Pathetic."
So guys, help us out here, why do men handle exiting from someone they have been dating this way, especially when you have been giving the perception to the woman that all is really good and that you are into her.
I mentioned in another thread something that just gets under my skin and it is the carter guy that is making a fortune by selling programs to women for $400 a pop to teach them why exactly guys do this, why they just stop calling and vanish into thin air when dating and everything seems good. Which Carter is right, it totally baffles the woman, and she is clueless as to what happened! And he supposely teaches women how to prevent that from happening with a man. As he states, the things that men do not want women to know. How when they say this, it really means that.
What a racket for him, but this must be a very common behavorial trait in men, and I can even say that I experienced it once, but it was nothing devastating to me as I was not invested, I don't invest easy and good thing I guess. But no way am I paying some guy even four bucks to figure out a man, if a man acts like that he can hit the door anyway, who needs that in my opinion. But save some woman hard earned dollars here, tell us for free what carter is selling...why do guys do that, just vanish rather then just being real and upfront and saying hey, its not working out.
What triggers a man to bolt like that, without explanation? And what are some things that a man says but yet means something else totally different. Like what does a man mean when he says he is really into you?
For the Ladies, what are some other lines that we can ask the men what the real meaning is?
Help us figure you out and we will in turn help you figure us out.
"Usually guys have no courage to tell you the truth so they choose easier way - they simply vanish. Pathetic."
So guys, help us out here, why do men handle exiting from someone they have been dating this way, especially when you have been giving the perception to the woman that all is really good and that you are into her.
I mentioned in another thread something that just gets under my skin and it is the carter guy that is making a fortune by selling programs to women for $400 a pop to teach them why exactly guys do this, why they just stop calling and vanish into thin air when dating and everything seems good. Which Carter is right, it totally baffles the woman, and she is clueless as to what happened! And he supposely teaches women how to prevent that from happening with a man. As he states, the things that men do not want women to know. How when they say this, it really means that.
What a racket for him, but this must be a very common behavorial trait in men, and I can even say that I experienced it once, but it was nothing devastating to me as I was not invested, I don't invest easy and good thing I guess. But no way am I paying some guy even four bucks to figure out a man, if a man acts like that he can hit the door anyway, who needs that in my opinion. But save some woman hard earned dollars here, tell us for free what carter is selling...why do guys do that, just vanish rather then just being real and upfront and saying hey, its not working out.
What triggers a man to bolt like that, without explanation? And what are some things that a man says but yet means something else totally different. Like what does a man mean when he says he is really into you?
For the Ladies, what are some other lines that we can ask the men what the real meaning is?
Help us figure you out and we will in turn help you figure us out.
Easy need to date men not boys. Men have courage and face truth no matter the consequences realizing it is courage the separate Men from the boys the run and hide behind momma's skirt when the truth is hard.
I guess the problem is the boys can put up a good front. Just realize when a man tells you something that scares you and may be hard to deal with and he is being honest, don't run away realize you are with a real man.
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Arealguy69: Generalisations Not all us men display these behavioral traits, maybe you should ask the one who did it to you....
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Arealguy69: Generalisations Not all us men display these behavioral traits, maybe you should ask the one who did it to you....
Not always possible. What if he vanished?
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prairiewoman: Not always possible. What if he vanished?
Then not ALL men can answer this question, as not all men do this....
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Arealguy69: Then not ALL men can answer this question, as not all men do this....
Point taken.
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prairiewoman: Point taken.
Here's to your health...
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thewall2: It could be alot of things,one of the things for me,is when I confide in a woman,and she violates my trust in her.
BIG TURN OFF.
BIG TURN OFF.
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.....And it strange you Ladies ask for honesty.....So when we 'Men' do answer a question honestly and it not the answer you Ladies want to hear....you Ladies go off the deep end....big time......J.D
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virgiomonkey: ... .....And it strange you Ladies ask for honesty.....So when we 'Men' do answer a question honestly and it not the answer you Ladies want to hear....you Ladies go off the deep end....big time......
J.D
Not all of us ladies do that JDJ.D
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Like what does a man mean when he says he is really into you?
If a guy say's this it's because he has no idea what to say at all. That is a lame one liner that has been used over and over. If you have heard this from a guy kick him to the curb. He does'nt know what in the hell he's talking about.
If a guy say's this it's because he has no idea what to say at all. That is a lame one liner that has been used over and over. If you have heard this from a guy kick him to the curb. He does'nt know what in the hell he's talking about.
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ChinaS: Based on another thread that is going and quoting below the point that I want to ask about,
"Usually guys have no courage to tell you the truth so they choose easier way - they simply vanish. Pathetic."
So guys, help us out here, why do men handle exiting from someone they have been dating this way, especially when you have been giving the perception to the woman that all is really good and that you are into her.
I mentioned in another thread something that just gets under my skin and it is the carter guy that is making a fortune by selling programs to women for $400 a pop to teach them why exactly guys do this, why they just stop calling and vanish into thin air when dating and everything seems good. Which Carter is right, it totally baffles the woman, and she is clueless as to what happened! And he supposely teaches women how to prevent that from happening with a man. As he states, the things that men do not want women to know. How when they say this, it really means that.
What a racket for him, but this must be a very common behavorial trait in men, and I can even say that I experienced it once, but it was nothing devastating to me as I was not invested, I don't invest easy and good thing I guess. But no way am I paying some guy even four bucks to figure out a man, if a man acts like that he can hit the door anyway, who needs that in my opinion. But save some woman hard earned dollars here, tell us for free what carter is selling...why do guys do that, just vanish rather then just being real and upfront and saying hey, its not working out.
What triggers a man to bolt like that, without explanation? And what are some things that a man says but yet means something else totally different. Like what does a man mean when he says he is really into you?
For the Ladies, what are some other lines that we can ask the men what the real meaning is?
Help us figure you out and we will in turn help you figure us out.
sorry can't help you.I have been here"Usually guys have no courage to tell you the truth so they choose easier way - they simply vanish. Pathetic."
So guys, help us out here, why do men handle exiting from someone they have been dating this way, especially when you have been giving the perception to the woman that all is really good and that you are into her.
I mentioned in another thread something that just gets under my skin and it is the carter guy that is making a fortune by selling programs to women for $400 a pop to teach them why exactly guys do this, why they just stop calling and vanish into thin air when dating and everything seems good. Which Carter is right, it totally baffles the woman, and she is clueless as to what happened! And he supposely teaches women how to prevent that from happening with a man. As he states, the things that men do not want women to know. How when they say this, it really means that.
What a racket for him, but this must be a very common behavorial trait in men, and I can even say that I experienced it once, but it was nothing devastating to me as I was not invested, I don't invest easy and good thing I guess. But no way am I paying some guy even four bucks to figure out a man, if a man acts like that he can hit the door anyway, who needs that in my opinion. But save some woman hard earned dollars here, tell us for free what carter is selling...why do guys do that, just vanish rather then just being real and upfront and saying hey, its not working out.
What triggers a man to bolt like that, without explanation? And what are some things that a man says but yet means something else totally different. Like what does a man mean when he says he is really into you?
For the Ladies, what are some other lines that we can ask the men what the real meaning is?
Help us figure you out and we will in turn help you figure us out.
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The man who thinks in this way and behaves like this, is that a person is unsure of himself and full of many complexes... The problem is there...
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Tommyutah: Like what does a man mean when he says he is really into you?If a guy say's this it's because he has no idea what to say at all. That is a lame one liner that has been used over and over. If you have heard this from a guy kick him to the curb. He does'nt know what in the hell he's talking about.
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mylifewithu: Not all of us ladies do that JD
.....True.....lets rephrase that one, shall we..some Ladies do...can feel the 'White Pointers' circling me....ready to chomp.!!!..only joking 'Leda'...
J.D
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virgiomonkey: ... .....And it strange you Ladies ask for honesty.....So when we 'Men' do answer a question honestly and it not the answer you Ladies want to hear....you Ladies go off the deep end....big time......
J.D
J.D
...and another thing I DON'T LIKE IS WHEN A WOMAN kind make her own judgement about a guy on her own and has to go and ask 20 OF her female friends for an opinion on you.
You see that alot on this site,that's why you got to be careful what you post,because if you get into a disagreement with one woman on this site,you'll feel it from all the others,and it can make you're forum posting experiences .......quite uncomfortable.
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"Usually guys have no courage to tell you the truth so they choose easier way - they simply vanish. Pathetic."
So guys, help us out here, why do men handle exiting from someone they have been dating this way, especially when you have been giving the perception to the woman that all is really good and that you are into her.
I mentioned in another thread something that just gets under my skin and it is the carter guy that is making a fortune by selling programs to women for $400 a pop to teach them why exactly guys do this, why they just stop calling and vanish into thin air when dating and everything seems good. Which Carter is right, it totally baffles the woman, and she is clueless as to what happened! And he supposely teaches women how to prevent that from happening with a man. As he states, the things that men do not want women to know. How when they say this, it really means that.
What a racket for him, but this must be a very common behavorial trait in men, and I can even say that I experienced it once, but it was nothing devastating to me as I was not invested, I don't invest easy and good thing I guess. But no way am I paying some guy even four bucks to figure out a man, if a man acts like that he can hit the door anyway, who needs that in my opinion. But save some woman hard earned dollars here, tell us for free what carter is selling...why do guys do that, just vanish rather then just being real and upfront and saying hey, its not working out.
What triggers a man to bolt like that, without explanation? And what are some things that a man says but yet means something else totally different. Like what does a man mean when he says he is really into you?
For the Ladies, what are some other lines that we can ask the men what the real meaning is?
Help us figure you out and we will in turn help you figure us out.