Question for you men (201)
thewall2: Ya see,it's kind of like being on the TITANIC while it's sinking and telling yourself,''I'm not getting off this ship,until I know 'WHY' it's sinking.''The important thing is get off your ship.....and row like a son of a b.itch.
So 'WHY' do guys vanish....isn't important...all you need to know is 'that' it happens.
So 'WHY' do guys vanish....isn't important...all you need to know is 'that' it happens.
For the point of my question it is important to know, because this is about what answers this guy is selling that women would pay that kind of money to find out. There are answers to this obviously. Traits in some women that cause a guy to do this? You are guys, so what traits in a woman would cause you to bolt, honestly? Getting close to fast, being needy, etc? What would make you bolt?
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virgiomonkey: .......No problem 'Buddy'....As for the 'Blond' you so called organized for me ...Gee....thanks mate.....but, did anyone tell you .....I am not into 'transvestites'......
J.D
J.D
Yeah you did tell me so after the experience....
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thewall2: Ya see,it's kind of like being on the TITANIC while it's sinking and telling yourself,''I'm not getting off this ship,until I know 'WHY' it's sinking.''The important thing is get off your ship.....and row like a son of a b.itch.
So 'WHY' do guys vanish....isn't important...all you need to know is 'that' it happens.
So 'WHY' do guys vanish....isn't important...all you need to know is 'that' it happens.
Or being at a bar at 2.00 a,m in the morning ......DEPRESSED......but you know 'WHY'!
lol
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X_REBEL: Yeah you did tell me so after the experience....
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...................J.D
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Hey China.... This is just my opinion... This Carter guy sounds like a snake oil salesman. He does'nt have all the answers as to why men do this or women do that.
What matters is what happens in your life and the relationships that you get into. Do all relationships work out? Of course not. And remember all things happen for a reason, and when one door closes another one opens.
Ya gotta also remember that if some guy does'nt love himself... How in the hell is going to be able to love anyone else. Same goes for a woman.
What matters is what happens in your life and the relationships that you get into. Do all relationships work out? Of course not. And remember all things happen for a reason, and when one door closes another one opens.
Ya gotta also remember that if some guy does'nt love himself... How in the hell is going to be able to love anyone else. Same goes for a woman.
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Tommyutah: Hey China.... This is just my opinion... This Carter guy sounds like a snake oil salesman. He does'nt have all the answers as to why men do this or women do that.
What matters is what happens in your life and the relationships that you get into. Do all relationships work out? Of course not. And remember all things happen for a reason, and when one door closes another one opens.
Ya gotta also remember that if some guy does'nt love himself... How in the hell is going to be able to love anyone else. Same goes for a woman.
What matters is what happens in your life and the relationships that you get into. Do all relationships work out? Of course not. And remember all things happen for a reason, and when one door closes another one opens.
Ya gotta also remember that if some guy does'nt love himself... How in the hell is going to be able to love anyone else. Same goes for a woman.
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I think what should be established first is if the majority of men behave this way. I don't believe that it's the case. It may be that the type of men you are attracted to also have this undesirable trait. However, my quick poll of friends turned up some interesting responses:
The alcohol is worn off.
Somebody cuter comes along.
They're hiding guilt and want to exit before you discover it.
The attraction wasn't strong to begin with.
Some trait of yours may have turned them off.
Their expectations didn't turn out to be true.
Given these responses, I believe that a guy couldn't carry a big enough pair to look his lover in the eye and tell her what he's done. Perhaps a longer courtship would expose the #@!* before you fell in love.
Don't shoot me. I'm just a messenger.
The alcohol is worn off.
Somebody cuter comes along.
They're hiding guilt and want to exit before you discover it.
The attraction wasn't strong to begin with.
Some trait of yours may have turned them off.
Their expectations didn't turn out to be true.
Given these responses, I believe that a guy couldn't carry a big enough pair to look his lover in the eye and tell her what he's done. Perhaps a longer courtship would expose the #@!* before you fell in love.
Don't shoot me. I'm just a messenger.
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thewall2: D......What a pleasant surprise!
So good to see you J!------ This thread is Archived ------
Just look at this way.... its a journey and as long as you have no expectations, then all is good!
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ChinaS: Okay, so there is a mixed thing then. Women puts out and the guy bolts because now she is not worthy of him or something, he got it and is done. But, if she is not putting out, he does it too. So which is it? This is what i am talking about! Who can figure?
Aaahhhh, but women became clever and nowadays "catch" their men by becoming pregnant so he can't bolt off...
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Tommyutah: Hey China.... This is just my opinion... This Carter guy sounds like a snake oil salesman. He does'nt have all the answers as to why men do this or women do that.
What matters is what happens in your life and the relationships that you get into. Do all relationships work out? Of course not. And remember all things happen for a reason, and when one door closes another one opens.
Ya gotta also remember that if some guy does'nt love himself... How in the hell is going to be able to love anyone else. Same goes for a woman.
What matters is what happens in your life and the relationships that you get into. Do all relationships work out? Of course not. And remember all things happen for a reason, and when one door closes another one opens.
Ya gotta also remember that if some guy does'nt love himself... How in the hell is going to be able to love anyone else. Same goes for a woman.
I will agree he is a snake for taking advantage of desperate women, all in the guise of helping desperate women not be desperate. I personally, as i said, want nothing to do with a man that would act like that anyway, forget paying this dude, I will hold the freaking door for a man that does that. You would probably always have to read his mind and who needs it. I think you have a good point with that last sentence.------ This thread is Archived ------
ChinaS: I will agree he is a snake for taking advantage of desperate women, all in the guise of helping desperate women not be desperate. I personally, as i said, want nothing to do with a man that would act like that anyway, forget paying this dude, I will hold the freaking door for a man that does that. You would probably always have to read his mind and who needs it. I think you have a good point with that last sentence.
The only flaw is that you won't know till it's too late...
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ChinaS: I will agree he is a snake for taking advantage of desperate women, all in the guise of helping desperate women not be desperate. I personally, as i said, want nothing to do with a man that would act like that anyway, forget paying this dude, I will hold the freaking door for a man that does that. You would probably always have to read his mind and who needs it. I think you have a good point with that last sentence.
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Justme4uok: Just look at this way.... its a journey and as long as you have no expectations, then all is good!
Excellent!
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caspatch: lets get some ozark justice invite him down but make sure to invite us too
I have not had it happen actually. I had something similar happen, but he came crawling back around a bit over a week later saying he freaked out, was having flashbacks of his ex and the crap she did to him and got cold feet. He redeemed himself because I can understand that, especially in his case. But you hear it all the time from women and it is obviously so common that we have this guy getting filthy rich for helping women avoid it happening. As a writer myself, that gets my curiousity up about it, curious minds want to know and you guys have the answers, that is how this guy got all the big secrets so he says, interviewing men about it plus being a man himself.------ This thread is Archived ------
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so are you ready for an painful insertion then?...