Thedeise, u sound like a lovely person. Unfortunately, sometimes with a few drinks etc people do silly things or make silly excuses thinking it is only a bit of fun. Dont give it a second thought, and maybe choose your own girls next time!! I am sure you have great taste and dont need help in this area....
I probably would have left too, even though I know that no one should be forced to leave early. It would have been too much for me to have to witness tho. So I completely understand what you did.
Have to say I am living in fear of this situation. Just not ready to see my ex close to someone else just yet...
(dyin' to know which disco has a snogging area!!! Thought they were all for kids in wex!)
The trick is for lovely people like you not to let the less lovely people effect you. You can be the same wonderful women you seem to be and just slow up a bit. No amount of online chat substitutes for real contact....x
BUT... it is a lesson to all. As soon as I read we spent a wonderful TWO WEEKS together making plans for your future and declaring LOVE. These things take time to develop, and anyone who declare love so soon and discusses serious future plans will very likely let you down or be doing it with someone else at the same time.
I have lost count of the number of similar stories I've read online from people who move far too quickly... I know it is easy to get swept away with the romance of it all, but the writing is on the wall for these situations.
When will we all realise generalisations are a waste of time. So we are tainted by what? Equality? It is no secret that women from the Philippines are much more submissive because of the culture....
But I am truly sorry that you seem to have such negativity hanging over you, presumably because of your past. Look forward....
Good luck. I am sure you will have success..... Don't mind the negativity in this thread! They are not your target audience anyway!! There are a lot of people on here who do not go near the forums(wonder why?!) and everyone is looking for something different.
Well, im an Antrim woman with strong wexford connections! That result stings a bit!! Not as much as the tipp/antrim match i went to at Croke park years ago with some tipp mates. Only person in the stand in Antrim colours. They killed us as well.... ouch!
I had someone mail me this week and say they had "heard" that I broke up my marriage. Was slightly paranoid for a second that it was someone that knew me, even though I didn't break up my marriage!! But gossip, you know.... But in fact it was just random nastiness.
There does seem to be quite a lot of it around of late. Makes you wonder who had the cage shaken!!!
Well, i had seen it on the Irish forum. Of course there is nothing disgusting about it, but I would have thought it was more of a private pic for your nearest and dearest and not the masses on here....
RE: Your views please
Thedeise, u sound like a lovely person. Unfortunately, sometimes with a few drinks etc people do silly things or make silly excuses thinking it is only a bit of fun. Dont give it a second thought, and maybe choose your own girls next time!! I am sure you have great taste and dont need help in this area....